Blessings for Bear

12/08/2025

No one should out live their baby, life is not fair. If it wasn't for my older kiddos I don't know where I would be. My life is my kids! We all miss Bear so much everyday, there is a battle inside me everyday to be strong for my living children especially on the days I want to hold my baby more than ever. 💔

12/02/2025

What has grief taught you? 💙

12/02/2025

Really missing my best friend! 🥹 Grief will grab you harder some days, some days Im doing great, other days I feel like Im frozen while everything else keeps going around me... One day Im on top of the world and the next Im drowning..grief is hard, the more you love someone the harder it is... parents aren't suppose to out live their children, nothing is easy and life is not fair!

11/30/2025

If you have not had a Christmas with a cat and a tree.... these questions aren't for you...lol
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-How many ornaments do you put back on a day?
-How many ornaments have been broken?
-How many times have you picked up the entire tree?
-Tree Skirt?
-All your lights working?
-Have you gave up fluffing the empty spots where they lay?

Now once the presents are under...how many will he open??...

I have 5 kids, and a toddler has nothing on a cat!

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Bear and Casper would of been great buddies! I know they would of loved each other's cuddles! 💙

11/13/2025

You can never prepare for the heartbreak of losing your child, even when you know the time will come, there is never enough time. I miss him so much everyday, and will for the rest of my life. You're not supposed to live longer than your babies. Life is not fair. He dreamed of being a police officer when he grew up, he just never got to grow up. 💔
Bear Cottingham 3/27/15-5/2/23 forever 8.

11/11/2025

Best brothers ever ❤️🥹

11/11/2025

Lets just be honest. Lets just be real...
All the traditions and little surprises meant the most!
I hope my kids look back and remember how loved they were, not because of the gifts they got but because of the magic Mommy created for them. ❤️

11/03/2025

10/18/2025

He has no idea how much that sweaty hug meant! Senior year is racing by way too fast! He only has one more game left! When I said that last night he made sure to correct me "one more high-school game" 🥹 I'm ecstatic that I'll be watching him play college football next year at this time!! Time needs to slow down so we can treasure every moment!!

10/13/2025

Ten years ago today, we received the devastating news that our baby boy had an inoperable brain tumor. Ten years ago, childhood cancer became a harsh reality for our family. Ten years ago today, my heart shattered into pieces and has never been whole again. 💔

10/12/2025

Oh how I wish we could relive those moments. The bond my boys shared was truly special. Bear adored his Bubba so deeply. I yearn to hear these giggles again. 💔

09/29/2025

Everyone please got vote for Bear's Bubba! Link to voting is in comments of on the original post on football page! Help him get player of the week! Thank you!!

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