02/20/2026
Do you remember the Foxy 🦊 New Years Event? I ran home and slipped on my fancy cowboy boots — the little diamond ones with a pink sheen — still dressed as the flapper.
As something had shifted.
Being on the urban farm showed me I could work hard my way as the event even had a glass looking greenhouse for yoga to sound healings! Yes there were cute animals too with a restaurant above a boutique Farmers Market!
It became a living metaphor.
What parts of you need to heal? When the flapper archetype got taken out dancing, I knew the farmer needed her turn too to kick up her heels & cowgirl it up!
And right on cue one of my favorite places I frequented, when I lived a block from the beach, popped up with a fancy “rodeo” event
Because healing isn’t just introspection.
Sometimes it’s embodiment.
Yes — there was a bucking bronco.
Yes — people were laughing and playing.
But internally? I was doing sacred integration work.
I wore the same boots.
Added the flapper feather to my cowboy hat I was gifted from Volunteering at a VIP event. I also wore my Tony Robbins Date with Destiny Phoenix dress (that’s a whole post on its own 🐦🔥). I didn’t know if anything would “come” of it — and honestly, that wasn’t the point.
Balancing my Earth and Fire elements — so the fire doesn’t burn out of control, and the earth doesn’t become stagnant. Honoring both. Work & Play.
After 27 years of helping people & training in ceremony and ritual with indigenous cultures to working with hypnosis and NLP, I know this:
When intention meets alignment with the unconscious… transformation happens!
Plus — it’s fun.
They raffled off rodeo tickets that night. I didn’t win.
But I coincidentally found out I won the lymphatic drainage from instead — which felt even more aligned.
Turns out I couldn’t have made the rodeo anyway.
The farmer didn’t need the rodeo.
She needed integration.
And apparently… a spa day. ✨
Sometimes we don’t win what we think we want.
We win what actually supports us.
Earth. Fire. Feather. Boots. Phoenix.
Transformation.
