05/26/2026
Growing things (and Beingness) today!… I’ve been thinking of incidents and accidents, hints and allegations (thank you, Paul Simon!) — the small things any person might do or say that cause ripples— sometimes positively and sometimes negatively…. It’s interesting how we can latch onto the negative… And if we don’t ask kind or thoughtful clarifying questions ‘from the source’ or of the source… those small acts of uncertainty, insecurity, anxiety, carelessness, can take us down a spiral of anxiety and fear, gossip and malingering petty meanness to others — particularly if we aren’t ‘curious’ — or fearless! — and ask what we might do for or, perhaps more to the point, invite another to do to rectify or heal and resolve the issue…. This clarification, if done with grace and lack of ego, can clarify instantaneously so that the potential for ‘spin’, escalation, and harm - drama, if you will— is shut down … And it’s interesting how, with grace for self or other, with fearless and kind invitation to explanation or clarity, the incident never spirals into drama at all…. And we all have experienced and can name the brilliance of the small things that positively impact us and raise the level of interaction for all…. It feels so healing to lean into that way of Being!