Delano Counseling & Wellness

Delano Counseling & Wellness Delano Counseling & Wellness offers mental health therapy for individuals, couples, and families.

We care compassionate therapists that empower growth, healing, resilience, and intentional living.

We are hiring! Reach out if you’re interested 😊
05/07/2026

We are hiring! Reach out if you’re interested 😊

04/27/2026

Maturing means accepting that some people won’t understand you. Their view of you is filtered entirely through their own perspective, and that’s about them, not you. 👇

This is one of the most freeing things the neuroscience of the mind can show you.

Every person perceives the world through the filter their non-conscious mind has built. That filter is constructed from every experience, every emotional pattern, every belief they’ve ever formed. It runs silently in the background, shaping what they see before their conscious mind even registers it.
And that filter is the reason two people can be in the same conversation and walk away with completely different interpretations of what just happened.

When someone consistently misunderstands you, or reads the worst into your intentions, what you’re watching is their filter working exactly the way it was built to work. It was never really about you.
The published research on this is clear. People process new information through the framework of what they already believe. And most of those beliefs were formed in childhood, long before they ever met you.

The person who keeps misreading you isn’t seeing you. They’re seeing themselves. 🔎

Forward this to the person who needed a reason to stop explaining themselves to someone who was never actually listening.

04/16/2026

You know the feeling. Before you've even finished your own thought, you're already finding ways to manage someone else's discomfort. 🆘

Your non-conscious mind built this pattern. It runs faster than you can think. And somewhere along the way, it decided that their comfort was worth more than your honesty.

You keep the peace. You carry the cost.

The next time someone is upset and you feel that pull to fix it, stop before you respond. Ask yourself one question: am I moving toward them because I genuinely care, or because their discomfort feels like my responsibility to manage?

If it's the second one, that's the pattern running. You don't have to act on it.

Caring for someone and abandoning yourself to manage their feelings are two completely different things. Your mind can learn to tell them apart.

Send this to the person you were just thinking of. 🧠

04/10/2026

Here's to everyone doing the very hard work of healing. I see you, and I cheer you on. 💛 🫂

Share with someone you know who's working on themself. 💪

04/04/2026

When we associate quitting with failure, we end up staying in unhealthy relationships and dead-end jobs much longer than we should.

“Quitting” is not an accurate label for stopping something that is no longer good for you or no longer brings you joy.

Is there something you need to let go of in this season of your life?

03/31/2026

Boundaries.

03/19/2026

Your brain believes what you repeat. 🧠

Learning to notice and redirect your thoughts can be one of the most powerful habits for long-term brain health.

01/26/2026

Who you surround yourself with matters because the brain is constantly picking up on emotional tone, patterns, and expectations. Over time, repeated interactions teach the mind what feels normal, safe, or stressful, even when we are not consciously aware of it. The people around you quietly influence how you think, react, and show up, which is why choosing relationships that feel steady and supportive can make such a difference. ❤️‍🔥

01/16/2026

Why register for BIO Girls?
"As a therapist, I am a huge proponent for mental health and know how important it is for girls, this age especially, to build confidence. I love that the BIO Girls program works to give the girls confidence and self-esteem and also concentrates on showing kindness to others."

Register now: https://www.biogirls.org/register

Exercise for just 20-30 min a day is so good for your brain! Here’s to improving your brain health! 🙌🏻💪🏻🧠
01/16/2026

Exercise for just 20-30 min a day is so good for your brain! Here’s to improving your brain health! 🙌🏻💪🏻🧠

Here’s to better brain health for 2026!
01/12/2026

Here’s to better brain health for 2026!

Here’s a couple great book recommendations if anyone is looking to add to their list for the new year! Both books give g...
01/05/2026

Here’s a couple great book recommendations if anyone is looking to add to their list for the new year! Both books give great, practical tools for you to help your child reach their full potential, and to help them develop resilience and emotional strength.

Address

116 Bridge Avenue East
Delano, MN
55328

Opening Hours

Monday 8am - 5pm
Tuesday 8am - 5pm
Wednesday 8am - 5pm
Thursday 8am - 5pm
Friday 9am - 12pm

Telephone

+16123616859

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