Delano Counseling & Wellness

Delano Counseling & Wellness Delano Counseling & Wellness offers mental health therapy for individuals, couples, families, and play therapy for children.

12/18/2025

People-pleasing may feel like your personality, but it’s actually a pattern.

And patterns can be rewired. ⏰

Your brain may have learned to associate approval with safety, but your mind has the power to interrupt that loop. The mind can observe the brain’s reactions and choose a new response.

This is the beauty of mind management.
You don’t have to stay stuck in cycles of overgiving, self-editing, or shrinking to keep the peace.

You are allowed to think for yourself, even if others don’t like it.
You are allowed to say no and still be worthy.
You are allowed to break the habit without breaking connection to who you are.

12/11/2025
12/04/2025

✨ Your mind is one of the most powerful forces in your life. When stress and worry take over, your thoughts can cut deeper than any outside challenge. 🧠 Neuroscience shows that repeated negative thinking strengthens those patterns, making it harder to stay present with family and to enjoy the everyday moments that truly matter. ❄️ But when you train your mind to release what you can’t control, you create space for peace, connection, and resilience. 🌿 Protecting your mental wellness empowers you to show up fully—for yourself and for the people you love most. 💙

10/30/2025

You are the company you keep. The people closest to you influence your thoughts, habits, and even how you see yourself.

Find those who encourage growth, not gossip or negativity.

People who speak truth with love — not judgment.

To learn how to surround yourself with the right people, comment “SAFE.”

07/04/2025
07/01/2025

Moving forward after family pain doesn’t mean pretending it didn’t happen. It doesn’t mean minimizing the damage, or smoothing it over so everyone else stays comfortable. It means accepting the truth about what happened — even if only internally, because others aren’t ready to hear it.

It means allowing yourself to grieve. It means giving language to the things you carried, sometimes silently, for years. And it means letting go — not because they’ve changed, or because it’s all resolved — but because you’re ready to heal, whether they participate or not.

Forgiveness doesn’t erase your story. It breaks the hold that pain has over your future. It’s not the same as reconciliation. It’s not a forced reunion. It’s a choice to release yourself from the weight of resentment, so you can live in peace, not paralysis.

You can move forward and still honor the truth. You can forgive and still protect your peace. That’s not denial — that’s maturity.

06/17/2025
Good read on how AI effects our brains 🧠
06/04/2025

Good read on how AI effects our brains 🧠

05/23/2025

Feeling overwhelmed?
Put it in ice. 🧊🖐️

(Literally. Your hands. In a bowl of ice water.)

It might sound like a quirky home remedy — and if you’re into cold plunges, this won’t surprise you — but there’s real neuroscience behind this 60-second reset.

Whether you're new to cold exposure or already a believer, here’s why it works 👇

💡 What You’re Actually Doing:
You’re shocking your nervous system in the best possible way.

🧠 Cold water triggers the mammalian dive reflex — a primal response that slows your heart rate and activates your parasympathetic nervous system (the “rest and digest” mode).

→ Heart rate can drop by up to 25% in under 60 seconds.

🌿 It also stimulates your vagus nerve, which helps regulate your mood and calm your body.

→ Cold exposure increased parasympathetic tone by 58% in one study. (Frontiers in Physiology, 2013)

🧊 Add in a moment of gratitude while your hands are submerged, and you’re also engaging the prefrontal cortex — the brain’s command center for emotional regulation. That simple shift in attention helps override anxious loops.

🔥 Want even more benefit?
If you can tolerate it, extending the cold exposure up to 2 minutes (safely) may deepen the calming effects — just breathe slowly and stay relaxed.

🧠 Quick Recap — Why This Works:

✔️ Triggers the dive reflex → slows your heart
✔️ Stimulates the vagus nerve → resets stress
✔️ Activates the prefrontal cortex → improves control
✔️ Cold + gratitude → faster emotional recovery
✔️ May even relieve headaches (thanks, vasoconstriction)

⚠️ A quick but important note:
This is not medical advice. If you have any heart conditions, circulatory issues, or sensitivity to cold exposure (including panic or fainting), check with your doctor before trying this. What’s helpful for some may be harmful for others.

Save this for your next emotionally overloaded moment.

And send it to someone who might need a (gentle) reset. 🧠💗🧊

03/03/2025

I’m sorry someone could not love you like you deserve. One day you will find people who can match your level and it will be beautiful ❤️

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116 Bridge Avenue E
Delano, MN
55328

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