Delano Counseling & Wellness

Delano Counseling & Wellness Delano Counseling & Wellness offers mental health therapy for individuals, couples, families, and play therapy for children.

10/30/2025

You are the company you keep. The people closest to you influence your thoughts, habits, and even how you see yourself.

Find those who encourage growth, not gossip or negativity.

People who speak truth with love — not judgment.

To learn how to surround yourself with the right people, comment “SAFE.”

07/04/2025
07/01/2025

Moving forward after family pain doesn’t mean pretending it didn’t happen. It doesn’t mean minimizing the damage, or smoothing it over so everyone else stays comfortable. It means accepting the truth about what happened — even if only internally, because others aren’t ready to hear it.

It means allowing yourself to grieve. It means giving language to the things you carried, sometimes silently, for years. And it means letting go — not because they’ve changed, or because it’s all resolved — but because you’re ready to heal, whether they participate or not.

Forgiveness doesn’t erase your story. It breaks the hold that pain has over your future. It’s not the same as reconciliation. It’s not a forced reunion. It’s a choice to release yourself from the weight of resentment, so you can live in peace, not paralysis.

You can move forward and still honor the truth. You can forgive and still protect your peace. That’s not denial — that’s maturity.

06/17/2025
Good read on how AI effects our brains 🧠
06/04/2025

Good read on how AI effects our brains 🧠

05/23/2025

Feeling overwhelmed?
Put it in ice. 🧊🖐️

(Literally. Your hands. In a bowl of ice water.)

It might sound like a quirky home remedy — and if you’re into cold plunges, this won’t surprise you — but there’s real neuroscience behind this 60-second reset.

Whether you're new to cold exposure or already a believer, here’s why it works 👇

💡 What You’re Actually Doing:
You’re shocking your nervous system in the best possible way.

🧠 Cold water triggers the mammalian dive reflex — a primal response that slows your heart rate and activates your parasympathetic nervous system (the “rest and digest” mode).

→ Heart rate can drop by up to 25% in under 60 seconds.

🌿 It also stimulates your vagus nerve, which helps regulate your mood and calm your body.

→ Cold exposure increased parasympathetic tone by 58% in one study. (Frontiers in Physiology, 2013)

🧊 Add in a moment of gratitude while your hands are submerged, and you’re also engaging the prefrontal cortex — the brain’s command center for emotional regulation. That simple shift in attention helps override anxious loops.

🔥 Want even more benefit?
If you can tolerate it, extending the cold exposure up to 2 minutes (safely) may deepen the calming effects — just breathe slowly and stay relaxed.

🧠 Quick Recap — Why This Works:

✔️ Triggers the dive reflex → slows your heart
✔️ Stimulates the vagus nerve → resets stress
✔️ Activates the prefrontal cortex → improves control
✔️ Cold + gratitude → faster emotional recovery
✔️ May even relieve headaches (thanks, vasoconstriction)

⚠️ A quick but important note:
This is not medical advice. If you have any heart conditions, circulatory issues, or sensitivity to cold exposure (including panic or fainting), check with your doctor before trying this. What’s helpful for some may be harmful for others.

Save this for your next emotionally overloaded moment.

And send it to someone who might need a (gentle) reset. 🧠💗🧊

03/03/2025

I’m sorry someone could not love you like you deserve. One day you will find people who can match your level and it will be beautiful ❤️

02/20/2025

Much of our suffering comes from how we respond and judge how we feel. Learning to acknowledge and allow an emotion is one of the first major steps towards healing.

For more on this check out the resources at drleaf.com!

02/18/2025

Your mind is powerful, and if left unmanaged, these toxic thoughts can shape your reality. But remember, you are not bound by them! You have the ability to rewire your brain, to challenge those lies with truth, and to step into the fullness of who you truly are.

I’ll be covering this in an upcoming podcast so be sure to subscribe to my email to get informed when it’s out! To sign up for free just visit drleaf.com

02/11/2025

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116 Bridge Avenue E
Delano, MN
55328

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