Erika Miller, LCSW

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I'm passionate about the mind-body connection & on a mission to make evidence-based tools for stress reduction & happiness more accessible to the community outside of the therapy office!

About 15 years ago, I used to lead group meditations at a rehab I worked at. People LOVED them! I've been wanting to cre...
02/27/2026

About 15 years ago, I used to lead group meditations at a rehab I worked at. People LOVED them! I've been wanting to create a similar offering, and the time has finally come!! Consider joining me online in March!

How often do you find yourself internally fighting against what is? Ya know; like the traffic, the long line, your kid h...
01/26/2026

How often do you find yourself internally fighting against what is? Ya know; like the traffic, the long line, your kid having a tantrum? Haha When we do this, we’re just contributing to our own suffering.

How might your experience of them change if you were able to mindfully bring in a bit of patience and acceptance to the situation? …We’d likely be less stressed, enjoy a broader perspective, and have a little more peace of mind. Agreed?

By practicing patience & acceptance, the things around us might not change at all, but our relationship to them changes-which can have a big impact on us and the way we show up for the people and situations in our lives. If the traffic, the line, the tantrum are going to be happening anyway, why not adopt a mindset that actually supports us?

Comment below to share examples of other situations where adopting this mindset could be helpful.

Gratitude isn’t just in our mind; it impacts our brain & body! *Gratitude triggers a chemical release in our body which ...
12/17/2025

Gratitude isn’t just in our mind; it impacts our brain & body!

*Gratitude triggers a chemical release in our body which impacts our emotions.*

[Dopamine & serotonin are natural “feel good” chemicals that increase happiness & oxytocin is a “bonding hormone” that can help improve appreciation, communication, and connection to others.]
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*Gratitude helps reduce the release of cortisol (a major stress hormone in the body).*

[By reducing cortisol, it boosts immunity and can prevent negative health outcomes linked to chronic stress.]
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*Gratitude changes the structure of your brain (like pre-frontal cortex & hippocampus).*

[These changes improve cognitive function, resilience against chronic stress, and make it easier to default to positive emotional states.]
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With all these benefits, let’s make it a practice! Say, “ME!” if you’re interested in joining a 5-day gratitude practice to finish 2025!

There’s always 2 sides to a coin. What we focus on, we get more of. This is partly due to the RAS (Reticular Activating ...
12/06/2025

There’s always 2 sides to a coin. What we focus on, we get more of. This is partly due to the RAS (Reticular Activating System). It’s responsible for filtering out “unnecessary” information so we can streamline our attention on what we perceive as important.

How much time are you spending focusing on just one side of the coin in your life? What are you inadvertently amplifying (and-is that working well for you??)? What are you unknowingly filtering out?

This isn’t to say you ignore feelings and problems that are legitimately there. Surely; dedicate time to consciously take meaningful action toward a solution. But, in addition, panning out to see life from a more expanded view shifts our perspective and relationship to things on both sides of the coin.

Gratitude has been shown to have positive effects on mental health by creating changes in the brain and body.

What are you grateful for today? As you think about it, take a moment to actually *FEEL* the feeling of gratitude (this is the most important part!).

[Maybe this would make for our next "Come to Your Senses" Challenge! Whatdya think??!]

“Being Busy”-reminds me of a foundational principle in ACT (Acceptance & Commitment Therapy) regarding our Values.Surely...
11/25/2025

“Being Busy”-reminds me of a foundational principle in ACT (Acceptance & Commitment Therapy) regarding our Values.

Surely, there are things in life that we “have” to do. But, how much time are you carving out for things that actually matter to you??

When we live in alignment with what we value, it can bring a sense of balance, fulfillment, and satisfaction to our lives. All the “must do’s” will continue to be there anyway. So, why wait for them to be completely off your radar before you start taking steps toward a more meaningful daily experience? Might as well balance it out a bit with things that are important to you, right?!

📣The call of action today is: how can you incorporate something into your life that would bring more fulfillment to your day?

Comment below to share what matters most to you.👇

The feeling of busy-ness only arises when we’re focusing on all the things we’re not doing. So, if we’re always “busy”, ...
11/18/2025

The feeling of busy-ness only arises when we’re focusing on all the things we’re not doing. So, if we’re always “busy”, when are we ever actually focusing on what we *are* doing?!

The paradox of taking time for yourself is that it frees up mental and emotional energy which otherwise gets drained while rapidly shifting focus from one stressor to the next all day long. The interesting thing is that by slowing down to be more present and intentional with our focus, we might actually get things done more efficiently and feel less burned out doing so, therefore, resulting in the perception of having more time.

👉How many minutes today will you allow yourself some space to just be?
👉And when you're done, can you bring more awareness to the activities you're actually engaged in?

Breath as a Focal Point*Why?* Training the mind in this way will improve concentration and help us feel more grounded in...
11/11/2025

Breath as a Focal Point

*Why?* Training the mind in this way will improve concentration and help us feel more grounded in times of stress.

*How?* Take note of your breathing. Whenever your attention wanders, become aware and- without judgment of yourself-return the focus to the breath.

Your mind will likely be busy; it’s what it does best. You might get bored, restless, irritated, frustrated, impatient. You might start getting distracted by memories, anticipated situations, or your to-do list. You might start hyper-focusing on other sensory input occurring around you.

It’s fine. It’s all fine. That’s part of the practice. The goal isn’t to clear your mind or even to feel relaxed. It’s to become aware when you’re going unconscious and defaulting to habitual ways of being. Then, practice consciously exercising your will to return to the moment. As you strengthen this mental muscle with practice, a sense of calm steadiness in the mind and body will begin to emerge. You’ll realize the personal power you hold in being able to manage and relate to situations in your life.

Drop me a🧘‍♀️if you plan to give it a try!

What exactly is a "beginner's mind" and why bother striving for it?Humans can easily fall into habitual ways of thinking...
11/05/2025

What exactly is a "beginner's mind" and why bother striving for it?

Humans can easily fall into habitual ways of thinking, feeling, and behaving. We often assume we already know what an experience or interaction is going to be like. But what if we're just operating on old, biased programming we became accustomed to over time? When we fall into living life on auto-pilot, we risk missing out on truly connecting with someone or truly experiencing something as if it were our first time with it. Remember the sense of aliveness you get with new experiences? This is something we can spend a lot of time, money, and energy chasing, but what if all we really need to do is slow down and drop out of our heads and into the present moment?...tuning in "on purpose and without judgment". Would you relate to people or situations differently in your life? What ripple effect might that have?

Sounds easy, right? But, wow-the application is something else! ha

Ever take the time to notice what’s actually going through your mind? We have tens of thousands of thoughts occurring ea...
10/14/2025

Ever take the time to notice what’s actually going through your mind? We have tens of thousands of thoughts occurring each day. Not all of them are true-even the ones that look, sound, and say that they are!

*Some thoughts can sound like the inner critic, which can be quite harsh at times.

*Some thoughts will default to re-playing past situations (that usually either don't feel good, or that make us sad the "good ol' days are gone").

*Other thoughts will forecast future “what if’s”-amplifying the worst case scenario and trying to help you manage something by repeatedly rehearsing what to say or to (to an exhausting degree!).

Intentionally bringing attention (in a non-judgmental way) to what’s happening in your mind begins to create increased awareness, space between your thoughts, and choice points about acting from a place of consciousness versus unconscious/habitual behavior.

Think you can take a minute today to tune in and see what's going on in there??

Mindfulness benefits include:* decreasing anxiety* preventing relapse into depression & addiction* improving general psy...
09/29/2025

Mindfulness benefits include:
* decreasing anxiety
* preventing relapse into depression & addiction
* improving general psychological well-being
* increasing immune function under stress
* reducing chronic pain
* improving the brain’s ability to process emotions
* increasing compassion (for self & others)

These benefits only come once we start taking time to become aware of what’s actually happening in our brain and body. Mindfulness can be practiced formally and/or informally.

To start, consider setting a “mindfulness reminder” on your phone. When it goes off, check in with yourself and take note of what’s going through your mind. Were you present with what was right in front of you or were you off somewhere in the past or future? No need to judge yourself. The act of becoming aware that you are unaware is the very thing that can start to rewire your brain.

Let me know what you discovered in this exercise…

In January, I completed a certification to become a “Mindfulness Informed Professional”! I love mindfulness because it’s...
09/22/2025

In January, I completed a certification to become a “Mindfulness Informed Professional”! I love mindfulness because it’s something that can easily be incorporated into your daily life! Just a little awareness goes a long way and can start to shift the relationship we have to our thoughts, feelings, and experiences in life.

Now before you go getting scared off by this, keep in mind that mindfulness is different than meditation and there’s no dogma or religion to it!

Mindfulness can be boiled down to “the awareness that arises through paying attention, on purpose, in the present moment, non-judgmentally” (John Kabat-Zinn).

Wanna try it with me? If so, say “Yes!” below. (This is what we’ll be focusing on in the upcoming free 5-day challenge.)

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