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Antoinette AmentaAntoinette (Toni) Amenta, 92, passed away on August 4, 2025. Knowing she lived a full life, she chose t...
08/05/2025

Antoinette Amenta

Antoinette (Toni) Amenta, 92, passed away on August 4, 2025. Knowing she lived a full life, she chose to leave this world on her own terms by choosing comfort so she could join her beloved husband of 50 years, Michael J. Amenta, and her son, Michael A. Amenta, who predeceased her. Antoinette was the oldest child of the late Anna and Felix Florio.

As a child, she lived in a multigenerational home in Pelham Bay, the Bronx, where she was blessed with strong relationships with the women in her family. She is a graduate of Wharton High School. Growing up with a family of Yankee fans, she developed a love of baseball and other sports. Antoinette played basketball with the CYO team that won the NYC girls' high school championship at the old Madison Square Garden.

Following high school, Antoinette Amenta attended CCNY to study accounting, where she met her future husband, Michael, and dear friends, the Associates. Antoinette and Michael enjoyed raising their family in Port Washington and lived on Long Island until 2004. There she became a dedicated NY Mets fan. Antoinette also developed a passion for golf, which was highlighted by two hole-in-ones.

She enjoyed helping people in her careers in banking and as a travel consultant.

Antoinette was extremely strong in meeting life challenges with strength and courage. The family was a priority to Antoinette. Life centered around enjoying and taking care of her family, especially her grandchildren. Antoinette loved celebrating holidays, socializing with friends, and playing bridge. She and Michael felt very fortunate that they were able to travel throughout the US and the world.

Antoinette is survived by her daughters Marie (Bob) Dolfi and Theresa (Chris) Mooney; daughter-in-law, Kristina Amenta; four grandchildren Tom (Lauren) Dolfi, Annemarie Dolfi, Caroline Mooney, and Catherine Mooney, and a great grandson, Jack Dolfi; her sister Catherine (Louie) Greco, brother Joe (Ginny) Florio, and numerous nieces and nephews. Antoinette will be missed by the dear friends whom she made throughout her life.

The family would like to thank the wonderful staff at the Beverwyck who helped her to live independently, as well as the caring staff at St. Peter’s Hospital who were amazing in her final days.

Relatives and friends may call from 9:30 -11:30 am on Saturday, August 9 at Applebee Funeral Home, 403 Kenwood Ave, Delmar. A eulogy will be said at 11:30 am followed by an interment at Albany Rural Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Destroyer Es**rt Historical Museum (AKA USS Slater), PO Box 1926, Albany, NY 12201, ussslater.org/donate or ARC Westchester, 265 Saw Mill River Road, Hawthorne, NY 10532, arcwestchester.org.

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Barbara Ann JasinskiBarbara Ann Jasinski, affectionately known as "Bobbi," peacefully departed this life on July 13, 202...
08/01/2025

Barbara Ann Jasinski

Barbara Ann Jasinski, affectionately known as "Bobbi," peacefully departed this life on July 13, 2025, in Selkirk, New York, just a short time after the passing of her beloved husband, Bob. Born on May 6, 1934, in Albany, she was the daughter of the late John and Anna (Sikorski) Mehalak.

Following her graduation from Cathedral Academy, Barbara worked as a telephone operator. She dedicated many years to raising her two children before going back to school for secretarial training. She then embarked on a career that culminated in retiring from the United States Department of Agriculture (meat inspection).

Barbara enjoyed sewing, creating many articles of clothing over the years. She introduced her daughter to the art and passed her sewing machine to her grand-daughter. After retirement, she enjoyed many winters in Florida with her husband. Barbara loved to search for recipes in magazines and on the internet. She collected piles of recipes and would spend all day cooking them. She took eating a healthy and a balanced meal seriously, crediting her and Bob’s long life to good eating. It wasn’t until her last months that she discovered the joy of cookies and sweets, happy to take an outing with her daughter that included a stop at the Ice Cream Station on senior Thursdays, which aligned with her frugal nature.

Always looking forward to spring and the awakening of her flower gardens, the scent of lilacs and lily-of-the-valley would fill Barbara’s home when in bloom. Even during the downsizing to a home in Selkirk, she insisted on taking some favorite plants with her and shared many others with family and friends. Daffodils, peonies, cone flowers, daisies, bee balm, and rose of sharon all found a new garden under the American flag in the front yard, along with the marigolds, cosmos and zinnias she planted every year. She also discovered the columbine that was growing around the new house, delighting in the different colors, always wanting to share the plants or seeds. Bird watching, especially the hummingbirds were a passion. She kept her feeders filled outside her window to observe them, always commenting on which birds were visiting.

Private by nature, Barbara enjoyed the simple pleasures. She spent countless hours with her great-grandchildren Jacob and Beverly, reading to them and later listening to them read. Calls and visits from her grandson Stephan and his wife Stephanie were always anticipated and she so enjoyed Stephanie bringing corn bread. She treasured the water color flowers that her grand daughter Katie painted for her and delighted in hearing of Katie’s accomplishments.

Barbara is survived by her children Linda Jasinski (Ted Simons) and Stanley Jasinski (Ann). She was “Bobbi” to her grandchildren Stephan Jasinski (Stephanie), Ben Jasinski (Krista), Zachery Jasinski (Maria) and Katerina Simons, as well as her 5 great grandchildren. Predeceased by her parents, sister, Rita Vincek (George) and brother John Mehalak. Survived by sisters Dorothy Hahn (late Robert), Janet Murawski (John), and Delores Slezak (Julian). Also survived by numerous nieces and nephews.

Barbara wanted to leave a special thanks to those that took the time to help, care and visit her in her last months of her life, including the Hospice nurses, especially Nicole who brought joy with her every visit.

According to Barbara’s wishes, there will be no services or memorial. Interment at the convenience of the family.

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John Thomas Pregent, Jr.John Thomas Pregent, Jr., "Jay", passed away peacefully at home in Delmar, NY, on July 24, 2025,...
07/26/2025

John Thomas Pregent, Jr.

John Thomas Pregent, Jr., "Jay", passed away peacefully at home in Delmar, NY, on July 24, 2025, surrounded by his loving family. Born on July 18, 1965, in Albany, NY, he lived a fulfilling life dedicated to his passions for film, community service, and devotion to family.

Jay was a cinema technician for over 30 years and was a proud champion of traditional film projection. He spent his career behind the scenes ensuring that audiences across the country were able to experience the magic of the movies. Jay also spent eight years as a partner and manager of The Madison Theater in Albany, employing so many who shared his love of movies. His network of friends within the film industry grew through his work at renowned film festivals including Telluride, Sedona, Traverse City, and Turner Classic Movies. This circle of film industry friends humbled him with profound love and support throughout his illness.

A proud member of the Elsmere Fire Company A, Jay dedicated 42 years of his life to serving as a volunteer fireman. He joined the fire company at the age of 18 alongside his father, John Pregent Sr., who himself was a lifelong member. Jay’s dedication to his community and fellow firefighters was a defining aspect of his life—whether answering emergency calls, mentoring young recruits, or simply spinning cotton candy at community events, he cherished every moment spent with the company. His fellow firefighters were so much more than friends; they were family. Their unwavering support throughout Jay's life is a testament to the strong bond within the company and will be forever remembered.

Jay earned an associate's degree in Technical Communication from Dutchess Community College and continued his studies at the College of Saint Rose. He was also a lifelong parishioner of Mater Christi Catholic Church, where he served as a eucharistic minister.

Beyond his professional pursuits, Jay was known for his great sense of humor and his ability to uplift those around him with his jokes and love of comedy. Despite facing a life-threatening illness, he fought with strength, humor, and grace, remaining an inspiration to his family and friends. Above all, Jay loved his family dearly and was a proud uncle to his nieces, Lindsey and Autumn, always present to celebrate their accomplishments.

Jay is survived by his mother Edrie Pregent, sister Michelle Wright, brother-in-law Michael Wright, nieces Lindsey and Autumn Wright, and many loving cousins, as well as countless friends near and far.

Visitation will take place on Friday, August 1, 2025, from 4 to 7 PM at Applebee Funeral Home, located at 403 Kenwood Ave, Delmar, NY 12054. A Mass will be celebrated on Saturday, August 2, 2025, at 10:30 AM at the Parish of Mater Christi, located at 40 Hopewell Street, Albany, NY 12208. Burial will follow in Bethlehem Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Elsmere Fire Co. A, Inc. in Jay's memory.

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Alice N. GrayAlice N. Gray, 98, passed away peacefully on July 22, 2025, in the Hudson Valley. Born April 21, 1927, in R...
07/25/2025

Alice N. Gray

Alice N. Gray, 98, passed away peacefully on July 22, 2025, in the Hudson Valley. Born April 21, 1927, in Rutland, Vermont, to Frank and Mary Nemara, she was raised alongside her sister, Francis, in a close-knit, hardworking family.

A 1949 graduate of The Pennsylvania State University, Alice built a dynamic life rooted in curiosity, elegance, and resilience. She married John Alan Gray in 1950, and together they raised two children, James Randall Gray (deceased) and Cynthia Lynn Phelps.

Alice shared a uniquely close bond with her daughter. For nearly twenty years, they ran a successful antique business together, specializing in early 20th-century jewelry. Alice was captivated by the history and craftsmanship of each piece, believing that, like love, true treasures find their way to us through time and chance.

She is survived by her daughter, Cynthia Lynn; grandchildren, Andrea Gray (and her husband, Stefano), Kimberly Parratt (and her husband, Tom), and Sean Gray (and his fiancée, Laura); and great-grandson, Neil Parratt. Alice will be remembered for her grace, wit, and the joy she found in every facet of life.

Alice’s funeral service will be held Monday, July 28, 2025 at 6:00pm at the Applebee Funeral Home, 403 Kenwood Ave. Delmar.

The family will receive visitors at the funeral home on Monday from 4:00 to 6:00pm prior to the service.

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Louis D. PapaLouis D. Papa, 73, of Albany, NY, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by family on July 16, 2025, aft...
07/19/2025

Louis D. Papa

Louis D. Papa, 73, of Albany, NY, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by family on July 16, 2025, after a long and courageous battle with cancer.

Born on June 10, 1952, in Queens, NY, Lou was a veteran of the United States Navy and served as a Gunner’s Mate aboard the USS Oriskany for 3 tours in the Vietnam War. Following his military service, he dedicated 30 years to the State of New York, supporting individuals with developmental disabilities in a career marked by compassion and commitment.

In retirement, Lou continued his lifelong devotion to community service, working as an Elementary School Aid and teaching karate at the Albany JCC for the past 15 years. Through his passion for martial arts, Sensei Lou left a lasting legacy, inspiring and developing countless youth by instilling discipline, confidence, and resilience that extended far beyond the dojo.

Lou was predeceased by his mother, Margaret Kennedy Papa, and his oldest brother, Michael Kennedy. He is survived by his daughter, Kiersten Vanek (Brandon); his brothers, Thomas/Jack Kennedy (Irma), John Papa, and Donald Papa; his beloved nieces and nephews, Talia, Sean, Ella, and Leo; his grandsons, Ben and Dan; as well as his lifelong friends, Linda Steffen (Karl) and Jason Collins (Nicole); and his faithful dogs, Senshi and Akai.

As was typical for Lou’s style, he did not wish to be the center of attention. He will be interred at the Saratoga National Military Cemetery with Military Honors at 2 PM on August 1, 2025.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital, www.stjude.org

Lou will be deeply missed, but his spirit of friendship, service and mentorship will endure in the lives he touched.

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Daniel Ethan Van HoesenDaniel Ethan Van Hoesen, 83, passed away on Friday, July 11, 2025.Born in Feura Bush on August 23...
07/14/2025

Daniel Ethan Van Hoesen

Daniel Ethan Van Hoesen, 83, passed away on Friday, July 11, 2025.

Born in Feura Bush on August 23, 1941, he was the son of the late William and Ollie (McNab) Van Hoesen. A U.S. Army veteran, Daniel honorably served his country during the Vietnam War. Daniel worked at the Albany Institute of History and Art as a carpenter for 36 years prior to his retirement in 2007. He was married to Sandra Mae Oravsky on August 10, 1974. While attending Bethlehem Junior High School, Daniel was a gymnast and enjoyed putting on shows. He made his own artwork and loved music, especially dancing and playing the guitar.

He is survived by his daughters, Christina and Victoria Van Hoesen; brother, Samuel Van Hoesen; sister, Marylou Ward; and several nieces and nephews. In addition to his parents, Daniel was predeceased by a brother, Ronald Van Hoesen.

Calling hours will be held from 10 am to 12 pm on Saturday, July 19 at Clarksville Community Church, 1997 Delaware Turnpike, Clarksville followed by a funeral service at 12 noon. Burial will be in Onesquethaw Cemetery followed by a reception at the church.

Contributions may be made to Sarcoma Foundation of America (curesarcoma.org) or Community Hospice (communityhospice.org).

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Mark Brian KovallMark Brian Kovall, 73, of Glenmont, New York, passed away peacefully on Saturday, July 5, 2025. Born on...
07/06/2025

Mark Brian Kovall

Mark Brian Kovall, 73, of Glenmont, New York, passed away peacefully on Saturday, July 5, 2025. Born on November 24, 1951, in the Bronx, Mark lived a life marked by devotion to his family, his community, and the many people fortunate enough to know him.

A proud graduate of Drake University, Mark earned his degree in Business Administration in 1973 — the same year he began his 52-year commitment as a volunteer firefighter. He served in departments across Rockland, Orange, and Albany Counties, most recently Elsmere Fire Co. Mark dedicated much of his life to protecting others with courage and compassion.

In addition to his service as a firefighter, Mark also worked for many years with the United States Postal Service. He was a reliable and hardworking presence, known for his dedication and strong work ethic.

Above all, Mark was a family man. Married to the love of his life, Judy, for 46 years, the two built a strong and loving home together. They raised three children: Ann (Tom) Martorana, Karen Kovall (Brad), and Michael (Michelle) Kovall. Mark was a devoted and proud grandfather to seven grandchildren, all of whom he adored beyond words.

Mark was known for his warm personality, quick wit, and ability to make friends wherever he went. He had a true gift for conversation and brought joy to everyone around him. While he gave generously of his time to the community, his greatest commitment was always to his family. Providing for them, supporting them, and being there in every way possible was the center of his life.

He leaves behind a legacy of love, service, and kindness that will be cherished by all who knew him.

Relatives and friends are invited to call on Thursday, July 10 from 4 to 7 pm at Applebee Funeral Home, 403 Kenwood Ave., Delmar. A funeral service will be held at 11 am on Friday July 11 at the funeral home followed by a procession to the Elsmere Fire House on Poplar Dr., Delmar for the final call. A reception for family and friends will immediately follow at the Elsmere Fire House.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in honor of Mark Kovall to Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center.

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Brendan J. JacksonBrendan Joseph Jackson, 42, passed away unexpectedly, June 15, 2025 at Duck Hole, Franklin County, N.Y...
06/21/2025

Brendan J. Jackson

Brendan Joseph Jackson, 42, passed away unexpectedly, June 15, 2025 at Duck Hole, Franklin County, N.Y. Brendan was born in Albany, N.Y., on Easter Sunday April 3, 1983, the son of Eric and Mary Louise (Delehanty) Jackson. A resident of Delmar, N.Y., he was a graduate of the Bethlehem Central High School, received an Associate Degree in Mechanical Engineering from RIT, a Bachelor’s in Forestry from Paul Smith’s College and a Master’s in Forest Resource Management from the SUNY College of Environmental Science and Forestry.

Brendan’s passion in the outdoors took off when he attended Paul Smith’s College. With the school outing club he helped lead hiking and backpacking trips, including in the Winter. He also went on numerous personal trips, including finishing the Adirondack’s 46 high peaks. He would later go on to finish all 46 peaks in the winter, hiking many of them multiple times.

After college, Brendan joined the DEC as a seasonal Assistant Forest Ranger, a role he would continue to return to annually. In the off season, Brendan pursued a number of jobs in the outdoors that took him around the country, including volunteering for the Northern Forest Canoe Trail, documenting tree maintenance along power lines and working as caretaker at the Lake Colden Interior Outpost.

In recent years, Brendan was posted as an Assistant Forest Ranger in the southern High Peaks - one of the more visited areas of the Adirondack Park. He encountered many people on the trails, making sure they were prepared and assisting as needed. He loved dogs, and especially taking them along on hikes and backpacking trips.

Brendan educated hikers online as well, posting in Adirondack related forums under the user name DSettahr. His posts were informative and direct, seeking to share the knowledge that would keep people safe and preserve the wilderness areas.

Brendan is survived by his parents; his sisters Annie Jackson (Stephen Smigielski) of Roanoke, Va. and Carrie Jackson of Saratoga; and his paternal grandmother Katherine Jean (Caswell) Jackson (late Frederick); his aunts Patricia (Delehanty) Tuzzolo (late Richard) and Joy (Jackson) Dohring (John); his uncles John Delehanty (Wendy) and Todd Jackson (late Jane); and many first cousins. He is also survived by his good friends Sam Prestidge and Danielle Dorfer Carr.

The family will receive visitors on Wednesday, June 25, 2025 from 1:00 to 2:00 p.m. at Applebee Funeral Home, 403 Kenwood Avenue, Delmar. A celebration of life will follow at 2:00 p.m. at the Funeral Home.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made online to The Adirondack High Peaks Summit Stewardship Program, hosted by the Adirondack Mountain Club website.

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William J. CavanaghWilliam (“Bill”) J. Cavanagh, was born on September 25, 1945, in the Bronx, New York. He passed away ...
06/21/2025

William J. Cavanagh

William (“Bill”) J. Cavanagh, was born on September 25, 1945, in the Bronx, New York. He passed away peacefully on June 20, 2025, at Our Lady of Mercy Nursing Home in Guilderland, New York. A beloved father, grandfather, and proud retired firefighter, Bill lived a life marked by devotion to family.

Bill dedicated twenty years of his life to the Fire Department of New York (FDNY), serving with Engine 46 during an era when “the Bronx was burning.” He took tremendous pride in his role, often sharing vivid stories of camaraderie and competition between fire companies from his time in the 1970s and 1980s. His career also included opportunities to train new members, passing on his extensive knowledge and experiences.

He was not only committed to his work but also cherished his family deeply. Bill's love for his children was immeasurable; he made it a priority to attend every cross-country and track and field meet they participated in during high school. His grandchildren knew him as a doting grandparent, keeping every drawing they made for him as treasured keepsakes. His wife, Mafil, was the center of his universe. Their cherished marriage of 46 years was filled with shared walks and evenings spent watching the news and game shows together. He cared for her lovingly until her passing in January 2020.

Bill’s formative years were spent in the Bronx, where he attended St. Anselm’s Grammar School and later earned his high school diploma from Mount St. Michael’s Academy in 1963. He fulfilled a promise to Mafil by pursuing higher education at Herbert H. Lehman College, earning his Bachelor of Arts in Economics in 1977.

Bill served his country with honor after being drafted into the United States Army, where he proudly served in Vietnam from 1965 to 1967. He loved the structure of the Army and fondly remembered the commanding officer that he served under in South Korea and Vietnam.

An individual larger than life, Bill was well known for his gregarious personality and Irish wit. He had an innate ability to connect with others, effortlessly striking up conversations with strangers and proudly sharing stories of his children's accomplishments. His generosity was evident in his everyday interactions - Bill was a known over-tipper when dining out and he enjoyed providing both solicited and unsolicited advice to friends and family alike. In addition, Bill had a love for Ireland, reflecting on fond fishing trips with his father. He enjoyed the simple pleasures of life, like listening to “the oldies” music, exploring new restaurants with family, and taking leisurely walks with Mafil both in Van Cortlandt Park in the Bronx, and in his new neighborhood in upstate New York.

Bill Cavanagh is survived by his son Daniel Cavanagh and daughter-in-law Erica Cavanagh (granddaughters Hope, Faith, Madelyn, and Everly); daughter Shannon Mastrangelo and son-in-law John Mastrangelo (granddaughter Nicolina and grandson John); and daughter Tracy Cavanagh. He will also be lovingly remembered by Kate Dull, his trusted nurse & honored family member. Bill was preceded in death by his father William H. Cavanagh, mother Delia Cavanagh, and beloved wife Mafilda Cavanagh.

The visitation for William J. Cavanagh will be held on June 22, 2025, at Applebee Funeral Home in Delmar, New York, from 10:00 AM to 11:30 AM, followed by a prayer service from 11:30 AM to 12 PM.

In lieu of gifts or flowers, William preferred that a donation be made in his wife Mafilda’s name to the Lewy Body Dementia Association, a charitable 501(c)(3) non-profit organization. The link is https://www.lbda.org/donate/

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Ardella F. DeLisleArdella F. DeLisle, age 91, passed away on June 13, 2025 at her home in Old Chatham, NY with her famil...
06/17/2025

Ardella F. DeLisle

Ardella F. DeLisle, age 91, passed away on June 13, 2025 at her home in Old Chatham, NY with her family by her side.

Born in Cedar Hill, NY, she was a lifelong resident of the Capital Region. The wife of the late Donald J. DeLisle, Sr. for 65 years, she is survived by her daughter, Lynne M. DeLisle and son, Donald J. DeLisle, Jr. She was also the mother of the late Mark E. DeLisle and Kenneth J. DeLisle.

All services will be private. Memorial contributions may be made to the Columbia Greene Humane Society/SPCA.

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Patricia Ann DesmondPatricia Ann Desmond passed away at her Slingerlands, NY home on May 31, 2025. She was 80 years old ...
06/04/2025

Patricia Ann Desmond

Patricia Ann Desmond passed away at her Slingerlands, NY home on May 31, 2025. She was 80 years old and contracted Covid a few weeks earlier. Born in Washington, D.C. on November 2, 1944, she moved with her family at an early age to Long Island, New York. She graduated with a B.S. in education from SUNY Brockport, New York and later graduated with a M.S. in education from East Stroudsburg University of Pennsylvania. She taught at Russell Sage College in Troy, New York.

She loved the outdoors and participated in all types of athletics, including softball, skiing, and swimming. And of course, she was an avid Yankee fan all her life. She is survived by a brother, Dr. Thomas P. Desmond, a sister-in-law, Debrah M. Desmond, and two nephews, Daniel F. Desmond and Thomas M. Desmond.

Her funeral is at St. Thomas the Apostle Roman Catholic Church in Delmar, NY on Saturday, June 7, 2025 at 11 am. She will be laid to rest next to her parents in Queen of Heaven Cemetery, Lafayette, California.

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Earl G. LenhardtEarl G. Lenhardt unexpectedly passed away on May 30th, 2025 at the age of 74. He loved his family more t...
06/02/2025

Earl G. Lenhardt

Earl G. Lenhardt unexpectedly passed away on May 30th, 2025 at the age of 74. He loved his family more than anything, and embodied that love by reliably showing up in ways large and small whenever and wherever he was needed. One of his greatest accomplishments in his mind was that he and his son Adam were friends as well as father and son, a feeling that his son has very much shared.

Earl was born to Earl H. and Alice (Bennett) Lenhardt in Albany, NY. He grew up as the middle child alongside his brothers George and Dennis in Slingerlands, NY.

After graduating from Bethlehem High School, he was drafted and served his country honorably as a lineman in the United States Army and the Army National Guard of New York.

Like his father before him and his brothers alongside him, he joined the Slingerlands Fire Department in 1968. After 34 years as a dedicated active member, he continued to work on the fire department's behalf serving a couple terms as a commissioner.

He was a graduate of Hudson Valley Community College, and spent the bulk of his career working for the NYS Department of Transportation, where he met his close friends Frank Andrews, Bob Lohse and Tom Cooper. Even long after they'd all long ago retired, Earl, Bob and Tom still continued to get together regularly for "Manhattan nights" and other social outings.

Through his first wife, he met Daniel (Boz) Baker who became one of his closest lifelong friends. After Earl’s first marriage ended, Boz's wife Mimi and sister Kathy introduced him to Mary Jay (Casey), a nurse in the doctor's office they worked at.

Earl and Casey bought a five-acre property in Slingerlands together, which Earl considered their own little sanctuary. Having committed to a decades-long mortgage together, Earl figured marriage would be the practical next step. The pragmatism of his decidedly unromantic proposal was belied by the love that permeated the more than four decades they would spend together as husband and wife; in his words, "we had a lot of good years together."

After retirement, Earl and Casey traveled extensively, and he was able to see much of this country that he hadn't already seen during travels earlier in his life, as well as many of the Caribbean islands and Florida Keys that Casey loved.

In 2023, he weathered a serious stroke and Casey's passing after a seven year battle with lung cancer. In the aftermath of those two life-changing calamities, he rallied remarkably well, bolstered by the comfort of his friends, the support from the Slingerlands Fire Department, and a good attitude: He answered the frustrations resulting from his stroke and the grief of losing his beloved wife with gratitude for what he'd had, for all of the people in his corner, and for what he could still do.

He was grateful for the help and assistance of his occupational therapist Leah Campbell and his speech therapist Fatima Khan, who worked him to help him regain a lot of the function impacted by the stroke, to the point where he was able to continue living independently after Casey's passing.

As a widower, he and Adam went on three major road trips: one to spread Casey’s ashes in the Florida Keys, one exploring the national parks of the Pacific Northwest, and most recently exploring the national parks of New Mexico and the Four Corners region. He enjoyed an active social life with his son and his friends right up until the end.

He is survived by his son Adam of Albany; his sister-in-law Lynne (Lesse) Lenhardt of Delmar; his nephews, Brian and Dennis Jr.; and his niece, Kimberly. In addition, through his marriage to Casey, he is survived by his sister-in-law Sarah (Tony) Fiacco of Potsdam, NY; Casey’s nephews, Mark (Tracy) Bradish and Sean Casey; and her niece, Bridget (Jim) Bradish.

In addition to his wife Casey, he is predeceased by his parents and both of his brothers.

Friends are invited to gather to visit with the family at the Applebee Funeral Home, 403 Kenwood Ave, Delmar on Sunday, June 8 from 4 to 7 pm. A brief service celebrating Earl's life will be held at the Applebee Funeral Home on Monday, June 9 at 11 am, with a reception following immediately at Slingerlands Fire District Station No. 1, 1520 New Scotland Rd, Slingerlands.

Those who wish may send a remembrance in his name to the Slingerlands Fire Department Benevolent Fund.

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