04/16/2026
Today I sat in the chair I’m not usually in — the waiting chair. Not the one with the clipboard and the answers. The one where you just... wait.
We’re waiting for surgical clearance. Vitals. Tests. Questions. Checklists that determine ‘readiness.’ I know these protocols. I’ve been part of them. I believe in them.
But today, watching my child go through each step, every clinical term I know so well felt different. Heavier. More personal than any textbook ever warned me about.
They don’t teach you this part in school — what it feels like to be on the other side of the clipboard. 🤍 💜