06/17/2020
As a mental health professional, my heart aches as I think about the trauma we as a society collectively perpetuate for black people every day in this country. Just existing in black skin means facing an inordinate amount of trauma in ones lifetime. It means that toxic stress is a daily reality. It means the basic human need and right to safety is withheld. This is sick and unacceptable.
The way forward is a fierce reckoning with the violence we perpetuate, whether directly or through our silence and inaction - both are acts of violence. We have to abandon our ignorance, our clinging to belief in our “good intentions,” and be willing to sacrifice our power, money, and resources to deliver more than just lip-service in the fight for racial equity. We have to take responsibility for educating ourselves, follow and compensate BIPOC who have contributed to teaching us through their work, and commit to a lifetime of unpacking and dismantling the racism that’s been baked into our conditioning from our earliest moments.
If you have the privilege of having been born with white skin, please listen to and believe the experiences of black and brown people, use the safety white skin affords you to show up and demand justice. Read books authored by BIPOC. Read about white supremacy, racism, and privilege. Quit policing the expressions of grief and outrage of black folx and focus on YOUR work in this fight. Have difficult conversations about racism with your friends, family, coworkers, on social media - risk making people angry, saying things imperfectly, and opening your heart to the immense grief, disgust, and outrage we should all be feeling right now. Let it move you towards action. Innocent lives and your own humanity depend on it.
In solidarity and to amplify the voices of BIPOC stories and activism, I will not be posting my own content for the remainder of this week, and will be focusing on listening to and sharing their work in my stories. Follow and .msrd who started this movement for information on how you can and why we must .
In grief, solidarity, and action 💔.