02/27/2025
I largely grew up in community.
What I mean by that is my family was made up of not only blood relatives, but villagers from the homeland (Italy on my maternal side and France on my paternal side) that knew each other before moving to Canada and saw each other through the massive shifts and adaptations that come with a move of this magnitude. It was made up of honorary aunts and uncles, cousins, neighbors, and friends from all over that my family cultivated over time as the village - our village. Literally, because many came from the same villages, and figuratively, because as immigrants they had to find their figurative/chosen family and network.
For as long as I can remember I was surrounded by people I understood as family, until I became older and understood that the family I had was largely chosen and necessary, in sorts, in order to survive the throws of being in a new place with different cultural norms and customs.
Much like the interconnected elements of an ecosystem, community thrives on mutual reliance. In nature, every part—whether a tree, animal, or plant—contributes to the system’s balance and survival. Similarly, my family’s experience as humans adapting to a new environment taught me that our survival and growth in a new place depended on the relationships we cultivated, not just with blood relatives but with a chosen network of people.
We were like trees in a forest, each playing a role in nurturing the whole.
In an ecosystem, each organism supports the others, ensuring resilience and adaptation. Likewise, in a community, every person’s support—whether emotional, physical, or practical—strengthens the whole. Today, as we face complex challenges, our survival, much like in nature, depends on the health of these interconnected networks.
In a time of disconnect, injustice, extreme hurt and violence happening, I invite you to be a beacon of community. To create it in ways only you can.
Just as no tree thrives alone, no individual can truly flourish without the ecosystem of relationships and support around them.
Yours in community & love - 💜✨