
08/16/2025
The moment I realized I was using my body to be chosen 🫦
For years, I thought saying “yes” was empowerment, but it was really longing.
The question "Will you love me if I give you this part of me?" came with each encounter.
I realized it wasn’t about desire, it was about filling the ache of not being seen. That ache came from the mother wound, the wound that lives in the womb space and carries information that shapes us.
And from mine, I learned to perform, to give, to earn love through my body.
The moment it all changed was seeing this pattern without shame...
Now, I mother the parts of me that never knew safe love.
I listen to her.
I protect her.
I choose her.
And I never have to perform for love again.