Janelle Washburne, LCSW, LMFT, CST

Janelle Washburne, LCSW, LMFT, CST Licensed Clinical Social Worker
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
AASECT Certified S*x Therapist Individual Counseling, Couples Therapy and S*x Therapy

04/12/2026

April, but lets make it more connected.
We’re leaving behind the habits that pull us away from each other and choosing small, intentional moments that actually bring us closer.
Now to the part you’re here for, how do we do that?
Well, we made something to help you do it.
This month’s Love Notes is a 30-day digital reset challenge designed to help you move from distraction to connection. We’ll send you one small prompt each day. Simple, realistic, and easy to stick with (we're talking low effort).
If you’re ready for more of the INS and less of the OUTS, this is for you.
Get the 30-day reset here 💙 https://bit.ly/4g0CwVT

04/12/2026

Won't you join me live in NYC? On May 15 and 16, spend two days with me and leaders in the field navigating today’s relational challenges.

Not a clip. Not a summary. Be a part of the conversations shaping modern relationships.

Sessions Live, May 15–16. Details and tickets: https://sessionslive2026.estherperel.com?utm_medium=social

We all have scars as a result of our human experiences.  Has recent heart break left you with love scars?  https://bit.l...
04/05/2026

We all have scars as a result of our human experiences. Has recent heart break left you with love scars? https://bit.ly/39EFj7O

In any relationship, if you don’t feel safe, respected, and cared for, then it's not right. See if help might be needed:...
03/25/2026

In any relationship, if you don’t feel safe, respected, and cared for, then it's not right. See if help might be needed: http://bit.ly/BeingAbused

03/12/2026
03/12/2026

When a child’s environment is unpredictable or dangerous, the brain prioritizes “war mode”-a state of constant alert-over standard developmental milestones like curiosity or play. Research, most notably from University College London, has identified three key areas where these changes occur:

🗂️The Amygdala (The Alarm System): This region, responsible for threat detection, becomes hyper-reactive. Just like a soldier trained to spot an ambush, a child in an unstable home becomes “hyper aware” of danger, causing the amygdala to “light up” even when viewing slightly angry or neutral faces.

🗂️The Anterior Insula (Emotional Processing): Both groups show heightened activity in this area, which is linked to anticipating pain and processing emotions. This reflects a brain that is always preparing for the next conflict.

🗂️The Prefrontal Cortex (Rational Control): In both children and veterans with PTSD, the prefrontal cortex-the part of the brain that helps with decision-making and calming down-can become “subordinated” or underactive. This makes it harder to regulate emotions once they are triggered.

To a child’s developing nervous system, a home filled with chronic yelling or hostility can feel like a literal “battlefield trauma”, triggering the release of stress hormones like cortisol that physically rewire neural pathways to ensure survival in a hostile environment.

While childhood trauma can physically reshape the brain-the brain’s lifelong neuroplasticity allows adults to mitigate these impacts by forming new neural pathways. I will put a few tips in the comments section to help if this sounds like what you went through as a child and you feel you are still being affected in adulthood (very common). Take great care of yourselves sweet friends!

NO PMID YET. SOURCE: SOURCE: https://www.iasp-pain.org/publications/relief-news/article/fmri-brain-scan-impact-of-physical-abuse-on-children/

03/12/2026

Nobody dissociates for the hell of it. Nobody dissociates to annoy or inconvenience someone. And nobody dissociates because they are afraid or "weak."

If someone dissociates, the only thing we can assume is that they've been trapped in inescapable situations— repeatedly.

If you've experienced sexual violence and are looking for help right now, call RAINN's national hotline at 1-800-656-HOP...
03/05/2026

If you've experienced sexual violence and are looking for help right now, call RAINN's national hotline at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) or visit them online here: https://bit.ly/36p6x07

How do you enjoy an intimate relationship after experiencing sexual assault? bit.ly/sexafterassault (Some may find conte...
02/08/2026

How do you enjoy an intimate relationship after experiencing sexual assault? bit.ly/sexafterassault (Some may find content explicit)

How do you start living again after narcissistic abuse? bit.ly/livingafternarcissisticabuse
01/24/2026

How do you start living again after narcissistic abuse? bit.ly/livingafternarcissisticabuse

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