Tom Bruett Therapy

Tom Bruett Therapy Provide couples and individual counseling virtually for those living in California or Colorado.

02/28/2026

shared how q***rness and polyamory has been one of the biggest blessings in his life, connecting him to a chosen family full of love, friendship, and meaning. Love shows up in so many forms, and it’s worth embracing all of it. It’s a reminder to stay true to yourself and trust in the beauty of your journey.

02/27/2026

Having an embodied seggual experience is so much more layered than it seems on the surface. Especially for gay men. This was a great conversation with on the topic of fantasy, segg and connection for gay men. ⁠
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02/27/2026

So many of us loved Heated Rivalry not just because the actors are hot, but because it reflected something real. When you understand the developmental stages q***r relationships move through, you stop pathologizing the conflict and start working with where you actually are.

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02/26/2026

Sometimes what we call standards are really just ways to avoid being seen. Dating as an older gay man means facing messiness, change, and vulnerability - and that’s where real connection lives.

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12/28/2025

Reading stories that reflect our own experiences can be so validating, whether it’s feeling jealous, nervous, or just trying to navigate casual encounters. shares some of these stories in his book, Love Beyond Monogamy, emphasizing the importance of being calm, genuine, and attentive – no matter the situation.

If you’re curious about embracing q***r intimacy without shame, and exploring the spiritual roots of polyamory, check out the full podcast interview on YouTube.

11/22/2025

Many of us were raised in cultures that taught us to hide, shrink, or perform just to be accepted. The good news? Once we understand what's holding us back, we can start dating smarter and kinder to ourselves. If you’ve ever wondered why you’re still single or how to attract the right guy, this is your roadmap to loving yourself and dating better.

Watch the full video on YouTube and start your journey to healthier, more authentic love.

11/15/2025

Want real change in your relationship? Discover how a 2-day intensive can transform your connection faster than weekly sessions. Watch to see why longer, focused time makes all the difference.

11/14/2025

Here's why I don't do 50-minute therapy sessions with couples anymore. Learn why longer sessions are crucial for the brain to integrate new experiences.

Great time seeing my mentors and huge champions of my book, Drs. Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson at our annual mentor meet...
10/19/2025

Great time seeing my mentors and huge champions of my book, Drs. Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson at our annual mentor meeting.

They are both leaders in the field of relationship therapy and founders of the Developmental Model. They are writing about work with gay couples back in the 80s when that was unheard of by many in the profession. They are all allies through and through. And they lead by example.

I can’t believe we’re still fighting this battle. Whatever the Supreme Court decides, this is a practice that is dangero...
10/08/2025

I can’t believe we’re still fighting this battle. Whatever the Supreme Court decides, this is a practice that is dangerous and harmful.

It’s hard enough to grow up LGBTQ+ in this country, without the added burden that you could be physically tortured by a “therapist.”

Come at me with your free speech, argument, but therapists who use this despicable practice should lose their license immediately.

Had a great time chatting with about gay relationships and gay intimacy. Check out the podcast episode out now! ...
09/15/2025

Had a great time chatting with about gay relationships and gay intimacy. Check out the podcast episode out now!

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Many therapists and coaches were trained in models designed for straight clients. That leaves us piecing things together...
08/22/2025

Many therapists and coaches were trained in models designed for straight clients. That leaves us piecing things together.

I’ve created a 9-month online course in the developmental model that will help you guide LGBTQ+ 🌈 clients toward healthier more authentic relationships.

Spots are limited- sign up before enrollment ends.

Learn more from the link in my bio.

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There are many reasons people seek therapy. Whether you’re struggling with a major life event, or challenges like depression, anxiety, addiction, or low self-esteem, together we can work toward relief and healing. My experience with psychotherapy includes work with individuals, adolescents, couples and families in a variety of settings. There are benefits to short and long-term work, depending on your goals and needs. My approach is warm and compassionate. As an integrative therapist, the sessions are tailored to the person sitting in front of me. A variety of different therapeutic orientations have influenced me, including humanistic, relational, psychodynamic and cognitive-behavioral. Together we will work on creating an environment that is safe enough for you to begin your healing process. Choosing a therapist is a meaningful decision and it is important to find the right fit. Call and interview a few different professionals. You deserve a therapist that makes you feel safe and hopeful about achieving your goals.