12/13/2025
How SPIRIT deals with holidays 🎄My daughter and more
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Good morning friends, it’s Saturday and I have a day off! 💫 I hope you’re enjoying yourself with only a few days before the holidays.
🎅🏽 Yes, it’s busy season. However, you need to find time to do things to celebrate. My daughter is very good at reminding us to carry traditions of baking, gingerbread houses, holiday movies, wrapping and more. She’s a gem for lots of reasons.
😌 You see, I don’t celebrate birthdays and holidays as I should. Those days have always been just a normal day for me, so to speak. I try to carry on joy for others during these days. I post themed things on social media, in hindsight hoping to bring healing and joy to someone else, including spirit.
💫 Spirit is very much aware what time of year it is. They know the dates from us. Whether they see the calendar on our phones, minds or whatever else shows the month, day and year. They also see if we decorate or not. It is our physical decision how we respond to the holidays. Spirit stands by and watches as we carry on. My suggestion in this is to remember them. Would they want you to continue holiday traditions? The answer 99% of the time is yes. Spirit is supportive if you cannot celebrate at all. The pain associated with that choice is real and no one who is grieving/sad can say it isn’t. If you’re in a cornerstone of not knowing (or knowing) what you’ll do in terms of celebrating or not, think what spirit would want you to do and do that. ❤️🩹🤍
🎄Yes, I’m one of those people who lost a few very importantly people (alive and crossed over) and struggle with this, too. Just know you’re not alone. I see spirit every day. And my Matante Solange, Memere, Mononcle Gratien, a few dear friends of mine and 99% of spirit along with the kids, help me go on celebrating it FOR THEM.
❄️ So, I hope this message finds you well. That’s why this is the busiest time of year for me. Spirit also feels the pains AND joy of the season. It’s called LOVE.
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