Allen Fisher's Journey

Allen Fisher's Journey Allen is an amazing father, husband, son, brother, and friend. He is a fighter and continues to fight against all odds.

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Allen has been having severe dental complications with a high risk of infection and tons of pain. Hospice jas him on rep...
06/02/2022

Allen has been having severe dental complications with a high risk of infection and tons of pain. Hospice jas him on repeated antibiotics to hopefully prevent further infection and the possibility of sepsis. His primary dentist does not feel equipped to remove the remaining teeth and imbedded roots and we have been fighting to find a dentist willing to help, while he jas been suffering in pain in the interim. We have now been referred to IA City hospital of dentistry, where theythink they will be better equipped to handle a complex case, such as Allen Fisher. I will have to take unpaid time off to travel with him, first for the consultation and then if accepted, most likely at least 2 more times for the extractions and then depending on insurance and coverage we may have to go back for denture fitting. This has been an extremely tiring and long battle with dentists, specialists and insurance companies that I am fighting. Meanwhile he has been losing weight, due to not being able to properly eat, missing and chipped teeth, severe pain and multiple infections. Please send prayers foe comfort and that IA City will accept his case to begin the road to dental recovery and getting some relief. As always, thank you all for your love, prayers, positive thoughts and continued support. ♥️

Allen has been struggling with severe dental issues, due to diabetes. He needs all of his teeth removed to be fitted for dentures. We had been working with a local dentist, but due to his health/not wanting anesthesia, they were only able to remove 1-2 teeth, every month. As time progressed more tee...

05/05/2022

Allen Fisher update. We have been dealing with these dental issues for forever now. Now the dentist doesn’t believe she can remove most of the remaining teeth so she referred us to another office. Due to the liability with him being on hospice, his deteriorating health and a high A1C count, all of which pose risks for infection and slowed healing, they are refusing treatment. Our next option is to seek care in Iowa City but he would have to go first, just for an initial consultation, then if they decide to take his case, he has only been able to manage one to two teeth being removed at a time and he has so many more to go. This poses issues with traveling, comfort care and expenses. I would have to take more time off work (when I just started back) losing money in that regard, nor do I onow if they will approve so much time off since just starting. It is just a never ending cycle. This man is suffering endlessly and unnecessarily and I am fighting so hard to get this handled. He has lost significantly more weight, due to not being able to eat, is in excruciating pain daily (on top of liver pain which is already extremely painful) and has a large infection in his mouth which poses so many health risks and concerns in his state. Please send prayers for confort, pain relief and the ability to figure out how to get this taken care of so he can be comfortable and not have to continue to suffer through this every day. It is breaking my heart and wearing on his health and mental state.

Allen Fisher update: Allen has been in a lot more pain over the past few days. He has been complaining of extreme liver ...
04/22/2022

Allen Fisher update: Allen has been in a lot more pain over the past few days. He has been complaining of extreme liver pain, that he says, feels like he is being stabbed in the side. Hospice says that this is the natural disease progression. He has lost some weight recently (which he does not have to lose). Since Allen has been on hospice for 2 years (In August) hospice has made some talk about having him go in for blood work so they can see where his numbers are. This is something I have been requesting for months now, but because hospice is not "life prolonging" they have not seen a need for it. However, since it has been 2 years and he is due for reevaluation, they are considering it. A MELD score tells us how well (or not) a liver is functioning. The score runs from 6-40 and the last time Allen's was checked, prior to being admitted onto hospice, I believe his was a 28.

Since I have been back to work, he has been working with his CNA on trying to increase mobility and gain some weight back. They have started doing some light yoga, we he is up for it, Unfortunately, due to this sudden increase in pain, he has not even been able to eat much, let along get up and move around. His teeth are not helping, as we have been working on getting them fully removed, but we have ran into some issues and he has since been referred to a specialist. In the meantime, that is another source of pain and contributing to the weight loss, as it makes it difficult to eat.

We were super hopeful, when my boss mentioned an alternative, trial for treatment, that was in Panama. He said that if we could get approved for the treatment, he would work with us on raising the funds. Unfortunately, we got the news not too long ago, that Allen was denied for this experimental treatment option that looked super promising. We have since went back to the drawing board. There are a few other treatment options that we have found and are hoping to try if and when the funds are available to do so. We want to start with reflexology, local IV therapy ( we have done IV therapy in the past that was tailored to Allen's specific needs, However the clinic was out of state and extremely costly. Just the blood testing and initial round of treatment was $5,000 that we held a benefit to raise. But it became increasingly costly and difficult to expect him to travel out of state for the weekend for every transfusion and be away from the home and family. I have since found a place, that is local, that offers much of the same thing, but it is not tailored to a person's individual needs. It is more of a one size for everyone type of thing, but I still believe that this is a great option for him. The IV will ensure, that Allen is getting the optimal absorption, that he can from these much needed vitamins and minerals. By utilizing intravenous vitamins and minerals, we can bypass his liver and his body having to break everything down. losing much of their value. We are also interested in oxygen chamber therapy. If anyone has any referrals, or information on any of these things, I would not mind! I am doing what I can to save up to start some of these therapies. If anyone is interested in helping to get this process going funds can be donated to his life prolonging treatments through venmo -Fisher-2013 or Cashapp at $FisherFamilyHelp.
I am also working on putting together an online auction and possibly another benefit. If funds are not available positive energy, healing vibes, thoughts, visits and prayers are always welcome. Cards and pick me ups can also be sent to Allen at PO Box 35984 Des Moines, Iowa 50315. He absolutely loves receiving mail but he does have troubles with dexterity, making it hard for him to write back. Just know that we love and appreciate you all and all of the help. love, prayers and support we have received thus far. It means so much to us and our family.

Current Update: Allen has not been doing well the past few days. I unfortunately had to go back to work, as we were drow...
04/08/2022

Current Update: Allen has not been doing well the past few days. I unfortunately had to go back to work, as we were drowning in debt and blew through our savings, with me being off work to care for him this past 1.5 years and we need to continue or excel his treatments. It has been a big adjustment for us all and me being gone all day is taking a toll on his health and both of our mental states. We worked with our hospice team, to come up with the best plan of action, for the time I am away at work. The first week seemed to go smoothly and he seemed to be doing good. He even started some yoga with his new CNA. However the last 2 weeks have been rough. I am not home to prepare his meals and ensure he eats and takes his meds/supplements. I started meal prepping and making sure we had things that were easily accessible to him and laying out meds with timers, notes, ect. Unfortunately schedules have been wonky for his nurse and CNA this past week, so that has not helped. But I often come home and find him sleeping in extremely awkward positions (he just falls asleep wherever he happens to be) and find his food for the day untouched. I try and make him a nutritious dinner each night, but (lately) often by the time its done, he has fallen asleep again and won’t wake up. This has been hell on me. I have no choice but to work, or he would have zero treatments and no home, but I feel like without me at home, 24/7 with him, his health has declined a lot since going back. This is a horrible position to be in and I don’t wish it upon anybody. Just hold your loved ones close and tell them what they mean to you. It’s important. ♥️

If anyone is interested in donating to his treatments, supplements, bucket list, or just a simple cup of coffee to brighten his day
Cashapp: $fisherfamilyhelp
Venmo: -fisher-2013
Or surprise him with a card or note:
PO Box 35984 Des Moines, Iowa 50315

The grand finale. The icing on the cake. The big shebang. I figured what better way to ring in Allen Fisher 40th birthda...
04/06/2022

The grand finale. The icing on the cake. The big shebang. I figured what better way to ring in Allen Fisher 40th birthday than on top of the world!? Crossing off another bucket list item for him and conquering a fear for me, we flew over Lake Superior and the town of Duluth, in a helicopter, with an amazing pilot. The experience was absolutely breathtaking and Allen said “we have to do this again!” It was definitely a moment to remember.
Happy 40th babe. I love you, always. ♥️🚁

This was between the most beautiful and most stressful part of our birthday trip extravaganza. We left the cabin and dro...
04/01/2022

This was between the most beautiful and most stressful part of our birthday trip extravaganza. We left the cabin and drove all the way North to the Canadian border, to Grand Portage, Minnesota. Allen Fisher absolutely LOVES waterfalls and this particular one (Pigeon Falls) is both in Minnesota AND Canada, so I thought how cool to see. I researched prior and reviews said it was handicap accessible and just a short walk from the visitors center parking lot. Well apparently people have drastically varying opinions on what short and handicap accessible means. I’m in boots, pushing Allen in the wheelchair and holding Willow and we ate pushing theough this half plowed trail. Pushing and pushing we go. I felt like the little engine that could and was determined to get Allen up there. We keep going and going and eventually he did not want to go any further. He told me to run ahead and snap some pictures. So I literally ran (not really what he meant) and I swear it took forever and a hike across a bridge and up an extremely steep set of wooden stairs (I mentioned they said it was handicap accessible right!?). Willow and I finally get up there and the view was absolutely breathtaking. I take it all in for a minute, snap some pictures and videos for Allen and then start the trek back down. I felt uneasy as I began to walk back and just had a bad feeling so I began to run back. I get halfway back to Allen and I can here him screaming. I run faster and get back to him (thinking the worst) and this man got cold and decide he was going to walk back to the car himself (determined as hell). I made him get back in the wheelchair and got him back to the car. He unfortunately got extremely cold on the way back and ended up having a pretty bad seizure in the car. It was definitely a scare for the weekend but damn it we made it! We got as far as Canada would allow us because well, they don’t want me 😂😂 So we have one hell of an experience, story and some damn good pictures. Enjoy 💙

After Allen Fisher Laker’s game and dinner we made our way to Two Harbors, Minnesota were we stayed in a cute little Air...
03/30/2022

After Allen Fisher Laker’s game and dinner we made our way to Two Harbors, Minnesota were we stayed in a cute little Air B&B cabin and went sightseeing. We took Willow along on our adventures as well, and got to experience Gooseberry Falls waterfall, Split Rock Lighthouse and Lake Superior. Allen and I also enjoyed some local dining such as Betty’s Pies, Black Woods Grill, and Cedar Coffee Company. I personally had only been as far as Minneapolis and had no idea how much more this state had to offer and how absolutely beautiful Minnesota really is…. It is breathtaking.

03/29/2022

For Allen Fisher 40th birthday, I felt like we needed to make things extra special. To be honest, we didn’t know if he would make it to this milestone and so celebrating big and breaking out all the surprises and bucket list adventures we could, just seemed fitting. I had already gotten Allen tickets, for Christmas to cross off a Lakers game from the bucket list, in Minnesota, so I took to google and began planning a great adventure. And with the help of some amazing friends, family and supporters, we made it happen!
Because, well, this man deserves it all and you only turn 40 once. We traveled to Minneapolis, Minnesota and hit Hell’s Kitchen and the Lakers game at Target Center first. The Timberwolves really showed up and welcomed Allen in style (even knowing he was a Lakers fan! 😂). We met Jon, one of their guest relations managers and he ensured the night was extra special (see video below). I am not a huge basketball fan, but it was a ton of fun, a great experience and it was interesting to hit a game at the opposing teams stadium/court. We had a blast and this was just the beginning! Keep an eye out! More to come.

Our new merchandise line is available. Show Allen Fisher some love and support by being apart of Allen’s Army. It takes ...
02/25/2022

Our new merchandise line is available. Show Allen Fisher some love and support by being apart of Allen’s Army. It takes a world of support and we appreciate you all. 💚

We have been struggling to continue Allen Fisher holistic treatments. It is often between paying rent or getting him what he needs, and this month Allen’s treatments won. We are working towards getting caught back up on bills and continue his care, so we have created some new merch!!! You can get these amazing items and more on our website at annedeanscreations.com . All proceeds from our business go directly towards Allen’s life prolonging treatments and covering supply and shipping costs. Please share! How cool are these! Thanks to everyone that helped make this possible. We absolutely love Allen’s logo!

Another bucket list post from our mini family vacation! We sat the kids down a while back and asked them all of there we...
02/11/2022

Another bucket list post from our mini family vacation! We sat the kids down a while back and asked them all of there were certain things they wanted to ensure they got to do with Dad. Charley immediately knew what she wanted to do! And that was to go to a butterfly pavilion. I remembered going to the one in Denver as a kid, so when family asked about us visiting Colorado it all came together full circle! We went to the same place I visited about 21 years ago and I recreated the photos that I have from then. Minus that really amazing luminescent shirt. 😂. Allen got to see and listen to the bees(his favorite), got some real local honey, spent quality time with family, enjoyed the controlled climate, and got to touch starfish! What a wonderful experience complete with our traditional penny smashing experience. ❤️

We have been kind of quiet over here lately. We really have just been taking the time to live more in the moment. To che...
02/10/2022

We have been kind of quiet over here lately. We really have just been taking the time to live more in the moment. To cherish the time we have. To create memories and relive old ones. Being in the situation we are in has really changed our perspectives on so many things in life. It really makes you pause and reevaluate and see what truly matters in this world. It’s the little moments of bliss, true love, pure delight, and the growing from within. The becoming of your true self as you open up and learn and grow and become the person you were always meant to be. This journey is definitely a hard one but it is also a beautiful one.

Thanks to some amazing friends and family, we were able to cross off some more bucket list items recently. We sat down with the kids a while back and had a serious talk about life and death and lsting memories and bucket list items. We asked the kids if there were things they wanted to ensure they got to do with Dad. Charley insisted she wanted to go to the butterfly pavilion! I remembered as a kid, going to the one in Denver, and sure enough, they are still in business. Allen has family in Colorado (on his Mom’s side) that so graciously opened their home and hearts to us and it was amazing to meet that part of his family. Even though I never got the chance to meet his Mom, I only hear good things and can only imagine the type of women she was and it was beautiful to see them all reconnected and be in the present moment while also reminiscing. We got the chance to connect with family, build upon those relationships, create new memories, mark of bucket list items and just take in all of the natural beauty that surrounded us. I thought I was an ocean girl (even though water scares me) but in those moments, I realized the mountains hold my heart. I married Allen on top of A Mountain and the absolute peacefulness I felt in those mountains was immense. We will always cherish this time we had there and hope to be able to make it back and enjoy some other places along the way.

Allen did extremely well on the trip. We drove over 22 hours and 1800 miles in 4 days and he was a damn trooper. He did have 2 seizures while we were gone, with one being very scary and worse than others, but once he cane out of them, we got him warmed up and rested he was able to enjoy the rest of the trip with very minimal issues. He got to see the mountains, family, take Charley to her bucket list butterfly pavilion, take Willow on a road trip, drink healing spring waters, eat specialty donuts and coffee, we got to go back to Cheba Hut, where we had our first date (in Iowa). Overall it was an absolutely amazing and breathtaking trip that absolutely filled our hearts to the brim. Thank you to wveryone that made this a possibility.
“May your dreams be larger than mountains; and may you have the courage to scale their summets.” 💙

01/04/2022

They removed the old picc, he has had since March, and replaced it with a new one. We had them place the new one into his other arm (left), since he is right handed, to help prevent future migration. They were surprised, in radiology, that he has had this one for so long. Everything went well, took about 20min. We are now home. Relieved and relaxing. Thank you all for your continued thoughts and prayers. 💚

01/04/2022

Update 💚

01/04/2022

Update 💚 thank you all for the continued prayers.

01/04/2022
01/04/2022

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