09/21/2025
Mixing black and brown, rocking a crop top, no bra, comfy pants, and my belly out>>>
All of it belongs.š It feels powerful to be at a point to be able to witness and hold space for every part of me. Most days it comes easy, (holy s**t!! I canāt believe I can truly say that!) some days it doesnāt and that is okay! Every damn day I can choose to respect and value body.
From the girl who hated, attempted to harm, change and shrink her body at all cost to be loved, to fit in and be more likable.. to be more āgoodā from roughly 10/11 years old till 29. I didnāt realize all the layers underneath my body image issues until I finally started and stuck with therapy in June of 2023.
I know I am so much more than my body! I donāt post much about it anymore because it truly is the least interesting thing about me. But I know thereās so many people who still struggle with idolizing thin people, dealing with EDās, stuck in diet culture, fearful of gaining weight, people who have weight bias or fat phobia. People who hide because theyāre afraid of being judged. It is scary and this world is not made for fat people. It has conditioned every one of us that being fat means something negative. Or the funniest of all, being fat means we are unhealthy. But we are here!!! And the absolute last thing diet culture and fat phobic people want to see.. is fat people happy, existing as they are with Joy. So keep showing up as you are. Do things that scare you. Take up space. Wear what you want! Go to therapy if itās helpful. Educate yourself on fat phobia and diet culture.
Also, a reminder that you never need to comment on someoneās body, even if YOU perceive it as being positive or a compliment. We just donāt need to do it!!