05/08/2026
He grabbed the toy first.
His sister grabbed it back.
And just like that, it turned into yelling, grabbing, tears đ¤âŚ the kind of moment that makes you think, this canât just be about the toy.
Because itâs not.
Sometimes what looks like âfighting over everythingâ is really a child trying to handle something that feels overwhelming on the inside⌠without the words to say it.
So it comes out sideways.
In arguing.
In pushing back.
In going from 0 to 100 over something small.
In play therapy, we donât treat that like bad behavior that needs to be shut down. We see it as something that needs space to come out safely.
Thatâs why, in the playroom, your child might still test limits. They might still show anger. But the difference is how itâs met. The limits are steady, calm, and consistent⌠and your child doesnât lose the relationship for having big feelings.
Thatâs new for themđ¤
And over time, thatâs what changes things.
They start to handle limits without as much fight.
They find other ways to express whatâs going on.
Not because they were forced to behaveâŚ
but because theyâre not overwhelmed and alone in it anymore â¤ď¸