05/02/2026
As we head into Mental Health Awareness Month, it’s a good time to start thinking ahead to Mother’s Day weekend 💛
For anyone going through infertility, loss, pregnancy after loss, motherhood after infertility—or the mom who is quietly wondering if anyone is going to do anything for her this year because her support system is limited… this day can feel more dreaded than celebrated.
Sometimes it’s not even the big things—
it’s the well-intentioned “Happy Mother’s Day”
or the random “Are you having more kids?” while you’re just trying to check out at Walgreens…
And suddenly your whole mood shifts.
We see you. We get it.
For all of you—
the ones grieving,
the ones waiting,
the ones holding it together for everyone else,
and the ones wondering if anyone will show up for you…
…it’s heavy. You’re not alone in that either.
A few ways to protect your mental health starting now:
✨ Take a break from social media
Not just the day of—start now.
You’re already seeing the brunch posts, the ads, the “perfect” moments.
Ask yourself: What is this giving me right now?
If the answer isn’t much, step away for a bit.
Swap it for something that actually feels good—podcasts, audiobooks, literally anything that doesn’t make your chest tight.
✨ Do things differently this year
If you can’t do brunch or the usual plans… it’s okay.
You don’t have to push through just because “it’s what we always do.”
Maybe you celebrate another day.
Maybe you keep it low key.
Maybe you don’t go at all.
✨ Put yourself first (really)
If something is going to feel triggering or overwhelming—you’re allowed to opt out.
No long explanation needed.
Truthfully, the people who love you wouldn’t want you to suffer just to celebrate them.
And if no one ends up making a plan for you this year…
you are still allowed to create something for yourself—big or small.You don’t have to wait to be celebrated to take care of yourself.
Just a reminder going into this month—you’re allowed to protect your peace.
Even if it looks different than everyone else 💛