Humberto Garcia, Jr., MA, LMFT

04/07/2026

There is nothing wrong with wanting things that you do not possess. That is desire. It is good. It drives you to achievement.

You want a new house, so you figure out how to make the money you need to get it. It’s a great motivation if wanting the house truly comes from your heart’s desire.

The person who really assesses their own life says, “I would like _____,” and it truly fits who they are as a person, and is a good thing for them. That desire then prompts them to take responsibility for going and getting it.

Desire means ownership and responsibility. Otherwise, it is just envy, wanting what you do not have, and always not having enough.

But true desire means you will do what it takes to get it, and sincerely love it once you do.

03/11/2026

When you avoid things, nothing gets resolved.

Avoidance feels easier in the moment, but it always comes with a price.

When you delay the conversation, resentment builds.

When you ignore the warning signs, dysfunction grows.

When you push pain down, it resurfaces stronger.

What you avoid doesn’t disappear. It waits.
And it usually gets louder.

Facing it might be uncomfortable, but staying stuck?
That’s far more painful in the long run.

03/11/2026

Healing and growth happen when you let go of the past and embrace what’s ahead…

Even if it feels uncomfortable.

03/01/2026

Some of the people in your life won’t ever change.
And that’s okay.

You don’t have to fix them, convince them, or manage their emotions.

What is yours to choose is how you show up.
Consider your boundaries, your tone, and your peace.

Walk into these situations grounded.
Stay connected to who you are.
Leave with your values intact.

That kind of response changes everything.

02/12/2026

Awareness is only the beginning. Real change starts when awareness meets action.

What will you DO now that you know?

12/25/2025

10/09/2025

Consequences are how people learn resilience, responsibility, and growth. When you step in and shield someone from the fallout of their choices, you’re not helping—you’re actually keeping them stuck. That’s how toxic dependency is built. It feels like love, but it’s really control in disguise. True love gives others the dignity of facing their reality and growing from it.

Ask yourself: am I rescuing because I care, or because I can’t stand the discomfort of watching them struggle? One leads to growth. The other leads to repeated dysfunction.

If you’re ready to let go of the reins in someone else’s life and let them face their own consequences, comment “RELEASE.”

09/25/2025

📣It's National Psychotherapy Day!

National Psychotherapy Day is recognized annually on September 25. For a long time, mental illness was not recognized as a legitimate health issue. Over the years, there has been a growing understanding that true well-being requires both physical and mental health to be in balance. Thankfully, significant progress has been made in the treatment of mental health conditions with one major advancement being psychotherapy. Despite this, there is still a strong need to raise awareness about psychotherapy and the many benefits it can offer.

For more information, the link to National Today's website is here: https://nationaltoday.com/national-psychotherapy-day/

09/16/2025

A NEW chapter begins! Something NEW is coming soon! Stay tuned!

08/10/2025

Awareness is only the beginning. Real change starts when awareness meets action.
What will you DO now that you know?

06/01/2025