
07/17/2025
These photos are from the last time performed in Philadelphia. It was February of 2020. Just a few weeks before the world shut down. That time when we still had no idea what was to come.
I had had this artwork done by Katherine Hack (who is amazing and has a shop on Etsy) and asked them to put this quote of Andrea’s on it.
I printed out a copy and after the show waited in line to talk to Andrea and thank them for their work and the impact they had on me and so many people and to ask them to sign it.
When it was my turn, I explained about the picture and what it represented and they asked more about my work and as I was trying to thank them, they thanked me for the work that I do. It was a surreal moment. And so generous of them.
And so rare for an artist to understand fat liberation, especially an artist who isn’t in a bigger body. But they understood.
And this paper is so wrinkled because it’s been on my nightstand ever since so that when work is hard or I get frustrated with how slow the world is to change, I could look at it and be reminded that the work is important and to keep going. I think it might be time to put it in a frame.
That same night, I bought this necklace that has the line “it hurts to become.” I have worn it nearly every day for the past five years. Another reminder for myself and everyone I work with, that healing is hard and getting free is hard and it hurts, but it is so worth it.
Thank you, for everything. And for so generously sharing your love with us (and for encouraging me to get in line that night).