
07/17/2025
This is SO REAL and is a breeding ground for shame. A question yu can ask yourself in these moments is - what am I avoiding/worried about/afraid of happening if I complete the task? Sometimes the answer is surprising, and sometimes it can give you insight into what you may need to do to support completing the task.
For me it’s really hard to finish paperwork. As weird as it might sound, most of the time I’m avoiding all of the little tasks that come AFTER it’s done. So, I give myself permission to wait to do those tasks and instead figure out a reward for myself that will feel good. Most of the times it’s watching whatever show I’m binging, playing a video game or taking a short nap. It’s not foolproof - but it works (most of the time 😉).