01/12/2026
In trauma-informed therapy, we often talk about learning how to “put things on the shelf.” This is a regulation skill, not avoidance. When experiences, emotions, or decisions feel overwhelming, the nervous system can move into survival mode. “Shelving” is the intentional practice of storing materials to prevent system overload. It allows the brain and body to stay within a window of tolerance where processing is possible.
Putting something on the shelf means acknowledging, “This is important,” while also recognizing, “I do not have the capacity to hold this right now.” It creates psychological distance, supports emotional regulation, and reduces the risk of shutdown, panic, or dissociation.
Trauma-informed care prioritizes pacing, choice, and safety. Healing is not about pushing through. It is about learning when to pause, when to rest, and when to return to something with support.
You do not have to carry anything alone.
Our therapists are here to help you organize what feels heavy, build regulation skills, and gently return to stored experiences when your system is ready. We offer trauma-informed counseling in Draper, Lehi, and Saratoga Springs.
When you are ready, we are here to walk with you.
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