12/11/2025
⭐️I am a passionate advocate for self-love, but I must admit that this hasn’t always been my reality. As a Black man or woman navigating a world shaped by the legacy of slavery, embracing self-love can feel daunting—especially when messages of inferiority have echoed throughout our lives. How can anyone cultivate a sense of self-worth amidst a society that has historically deemed us lesser simply because of the shade of our skin?
⭐️For many of us, the struggle is compounded by the weight of being told that our existence is a curse. This pervasive narrative has left us questioning our worth and our place in the world, often leading to feelings of neglect—Did God abandon us in our time of need? Where is God? Does He love us?
⭐️The past five years have been some of the most challenging of my life. During my lowest moments, trust became a rare commodity. So-called friends vanished, life became unbearable, and I struggled with chaotic thoughts and an overwhelming sense of isolation. In this darkness, I was lost—angry, sad, and dissatisfied. Despite achieving what many would consider success, happiness felt elusive. I scarcely recognized what it meant to smile. My soul was burdened, trapped in a world I didn’t understand, yearning for something deeper.
⭐️I knew I had to do something different. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. I needed a change! I began listening to Minister Farrakhan’s lectures, and each time I did, I felt better. It only makes sense to feed on things that uplift and empower us. His words guided me toward a profound understanding of my true identity and our collective identity.
⭐️Minister Farrakhan emphasizes the teachings of The Honorable Elijah Muhammad, stating that Allah, in the person of Master Fard Muhammad, revealed the true history of the Black man and woman. We are not merely descendants of slavery; we are the direct descendants of Allah, the Creator of the universe. The Black woman is the second self of God—after creating Himself, Allah created woman. We were created long before the sun, moon, and stars.
💡This realization was an eye-opener: we are not inferior; we are superior! Somewhere along the journey, we lost the knowledge of our true identity and the divine power within us. That small voice deep inside me urged me to recognize my potential and my true self.
⭐️Through faith and a renewed understanding of my identity, I began to emerge from the shadows. I started to accept my birthright. I see myself as a direct descendant of the originator, not just a mere descendant of slavery. With this mindset shift, I began to embrace who I am. I started to smile, sing, and dance. I’ve been resurrected! I’ve been given a second chance to live and embrace all the beautiful characteristics that Allah has bestowed upon me. I’ve learned to love Allah, who came in the person of Master Fard Muhammad and traveled 9,000 miles to teach the Honorable Elijah Muhammad about our true identity. Self-love blossomed as I realized that God didn’t abandon me; He didn’t abandon us. The supreme being, who possesses the power to control the elements—hail, snow, wind, and earthquakes —loves us and came to save us.
⭐️Embracing self-love has transformed my life, reminding me that I am worthy, capable, and divine.
⭐️Let us reclaim our narrative and celebrate who we are. To discover self-love, we must place our faith in something greater than ourselves, Allah, who came in the person of Master Fard Muhammad. Embracing a divine purpose gives us the strength to overcome our struggles, reshape our mindsets, and make meaningful progress.
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