The Generous Horse Project

10/03/2025

The nervous system is a herd animal.

Just like horses, we were built to sense safety through connection. One calm, steady presence can settle an entire group — and one safe relationship can begin to rewrite years of fear.

This is why we turn to the herd in our work. Horses show us what regulation looks like in real time: alert but not braced, connected without losing themselves. They remind us that healing isn’t about going it alone; it’s about returning to relationship and allowing our bodies to feel safe enough to rest.

🐎✨ Read the full reflection: The Nervous System Is a Herd Animal — link in bio.
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08/22/2025

05/26/2025

Some trauma doesn’t scream.
It doesn’t lash out or rage.
It’s not loud. It’s not obvious.
It shows up in silence. In shutdown. In absence.

I see it in horses first.

Not the ones who kick or bolt.
But the ones who quietly check out.
Who stand a few feet away, not rejecting—but not reaching either.
Who seem calm, but aren’t connected.

And I’ve seen the same in humans.

The parents who aren’t screaming.
The kids who aren’t acting out.
The caregivers who are trying—but frozen.
The people who’ve gone through something too much, too fast, or too long… and had to go through it alone.

That’s what I mean by trauma.

Not a buzzword.
Not a label.
Not a competition of who has suffered more.

But the felt experience of overwhelm without support.
The pain that gets lodged in the body when connection isn’t there.
The ache of needing something… and having no one attuned enough to respond.

When I use the word trauma, I use it gently.
I use it to create space for the things we don’t always have words for.

I’m not here to add to the noise of “trauma is everywhere.”Because yes—it’s a word that’s been overused, watered down, and sometimes misapplied.

But I share this for those of you who know what I’m talking about—who’ve felt something deeply, but couldn’t quite name it.

Who’ve learned to stay quiet.
To disconnect.
To survive with as little need as possible.

I share it because this kind of trauma often goes unseen. And what goes unseen… rarely gets healed.

And maybe today is a day we make a little more space for that today.
We see you. We feel you.
You are not alone.

12/31/2024

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12/03/2024

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04/28/2024

Reposting this one because it’s a good one. As the end of the school year approaches let’s be mindful some of the these behaviors may rise up.