01/03/2026
As you start the New Year if you suffer from Long Haul Covid or other chronic conditions be kind to yourself. Set boundaries even if others don't understand.
Healing takes time, but not setting boundaries and draining your batteries faster than normal will set your body back even farther not enabling you to heal.
Many Long COVID patients wonder how to participate in family gatherings without crashing. Whether they should attend at all. How to explain their limitations without seeming antisocial.
But here's what makes the difference: Treating family time like any other exertion—trackable, paceable, limited.
You wouldn't run a marathon with mitochondrial dysfunction. You wouldn't lift weights with autonomic instability. But somehow, we expect ourselves to handle multi-hour social gatherings that are just as physiologically demanding.
Think of your energy like phone battery at 20%. You can use it, but every app you open drains it faster. Conversation is cognitive load. Standing is autonomic stress. Noise is sensory processing. Rich food is digestive burden. All simultaneously running, all draining your limited ATP.
What drains energy faster than people realize:
Social interaction: Cognitive effort—tracking conversations, reading social cues, processing multiple speakers. Can drain as much energy as complex mental work.
Environmental factors: Bright lights, background noise, temperature fluctuations, strong smells—all require nervous system processing and adaptation.
Positional stress: Standing, especially in social situations where sitting feels rude. Your autonomic system can't handle prolonged upright positioning.
Food complexity: Rich holiday meals require significant digestive energy. Histamine-rich foods can trigger mast cell activation mid-gathering.
Arrive late, leave early. Two hours beats four.
Choose a quiet corner—reduce sensory overload.
Sit whenever possible—minimize orthostatic stress.
Bring safe foods—avoid triggering histamine reactions.
Plan recovery time—budget two days post-gathering for crash recovery.
And communicate clearly: "I'll be there from 2-4pm. I'm managing a medical condition that requires strict energy pacing. I'll need to leave when my body signals it's time."
Your energy is finite. Gatherings have real physiological costs. Manage them like any other exertion.