04/21/2026
I didn't even know perfectionism was controlling my life until I was in my mid-thirties, sitting in front of my therapist during my grad school program.
Over the last nine years, I have been working with perfectionism. One thing I realise is that it's very sneaky. It controls our lives in a way that most people don't even think about.
Most people think we're just trying to look good on the outside, be hard workers, and have really high standards, but really we are anxious, insecure, and feel inadequate.
It shows up in:
- rethinking every decision
- extending ourselves in our relationships
- setting poor boundaries because we want to please others
- and just feeling simply exhausted every day
And in this day and age, it's an addiction to comparing ourselves to people on social media.
If this is resonating with you, I want you to know that you are not alone.
You can break free from the trap of perfectionism.
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