09/08/2023
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What is relaxation and why is it important when with horses?
Horsesโ natural response to uncomfortable situations is to flee and can startle easily. Horses are also very sensitive, and they can feel a human heartbeat 4 feet away. Knowing these things, it is only logical to want a horse in a relaxing atmosphere when interacting with them.
Horses are non-verbal communicators (obviously), but they do talk if you are willing to hear them. They talk through body language. Even very subtle movements are clear communication. Sadly, most only hear loud communication such as pinning ears, kicking, stomping, biting. Imagine how much happier horses would be if they didnโt have to yell so loud. Any parent can understand and relate to this. This goes both ways, such as a rider that has loud aids. Horses are sensitive to touch. How I see it, strong aids are our way of pinning ears, kicking, stomping, and biting at the horse.
If we are willing to be in the moment and listen to the subtle communication, then the horse will in return be willing to listen to the riderโs subtle aids. When I say โsubtleโ I mean flowing, soft, effortless. Itโs being so in the moment, open enough where the conversation is magical. Itโs like a faint whisper, a frequency, an intuition. True understanding that is a complete effortless flowing feeling.
If a horse is stressed, annoyed, misunderstood, pushed, feeling off, tired or just having a bad day like us, their body will hold tension. It is our job to help them find relaxation so they can cope with emotions. If they are having trouble, canโt cope, donโt feel listened to or respected, they naturally go into protection. Fight, flight, or freeze. Nothing good comes from this as they cannot use their body correctly. By incorrectly using muscles will create compensation patterns. Horses will sacrifice themselves to please us. It is important for the rider to be educated enough to know the differences and how to create relaxation. If not, over time it will create injury. This usually starts with labeling a behavior then to lameness. Often, this is where a rider loses confidence not only in themselves but also in their horse due to behavior.
In the end, this is truly unfair to both the horse and rider.
So, what if there was an instructor that could help and educate the rider about themselves and horse so they can thrive in true partnership? Someone that could see imbalances whether it was the horse or rider? Able to offer understanding and help to find true relaxation, flow effortlessness, soft connection, true partnership and confidence between horse and rider?
Would you take a lesson?
-Lauren Poteet