08/16/2025
Somehow, we can always find the words for others yet we don’t have those same words for ourselves. Here’s the thing, we ALL want to tell ourselves good things and sometimes we can project that when we speak well of others. So what’s the blockage? Oftentimes, we don’t feel worthy of those words because we are 🗣TOO HARD ON OURSELVES! We judge and condemn ourselves for mistakes (past and present), we compare our lives to others, we zone in on what we “should” be doing instead of appreciating what we are doing, and for some of us, we have allowed other’s thoughts and judgments about us plant seeds of self-doubt and now we possess the fruits of not trusting ourselves and we’ve learned to dislike ourselves. Everyday we are striving to make the best choices for ourselves; there are certain factors we can control and others we can’t control. Making the best choice isn’t about trying to change what we can’t control but learning how to pivot and change what we can control. If you’re doing this already, bravo and if not, it’s still okay because you’re trying! Be kind to yourself, always. Practice by saying to yourself what you would say to your closest friend. Love on you today 🤗.
