Bereaved Parents of the USA, Suffolk County NY Chapter
https://www.bereavedparentsusa.org/ We are the parents whose children have died. We are the grandparents who have buried grandchildren. We welcome you.
We are the siblings whose brothers and sisters no longer walk with us through life. We come together as Bereaved Parents of the USA to provide a safe space where grieving families can connect, share our stories, and learn to rebuild our lives. We attend meetings whenever we can and for as long as we find helpful. We share our fears, confusion, anger, guilt, frustrations, emptiness, and feelings of
hopelessness, knowing these emotions will be met with compassion and understanding. As we support, comfort and encourage one another, we offer hope and healing. As we confront the deaths of our loved ones, our shared grief brings us to a common ground that transcends differences, building mutual understanding across the boundaries of culture, race, faith, values, abilities, and lifestyle. Together we celebrate the lives of our children, siblings, and grandchildren, sharing the joys and the heartbreaks as well as the love that will never fade. Together, strengthened by the bonds we create, we offer what we have learned from one another to every bereaved family, no matter how recent or long ago the death. We are the Bereaved Parents of the USA.
When grieving, Mondays can feel overwhelming, like the world is rushing forward when our hearts are still tender. But grief quietly reminds us to slow down, to be kind to ourselves, and to move gently through the day. If today feels difficult, know that it's okay to take things at your own pace. Give yourself grace and remember that healing doesn't have a timeline.
07/18/2024
In the quiet moments when grief feels overwhelming, it can be a profound comfort to know we are not alone. The loss of a loved one, especially a child, brings a unique and intense sorrow that often seems impossible to convey to those who haven't experienced it.
But when we find others who understand, those who have walked this painful path themselves, something beautiful happens. Our grief, while still deep and raw, feels a little lighter. Sharing our stories, our tears, and our memories with those who truly get it creates a bond that transcends the isolation of our sorrow. In these shared moments, we find solace and a sense of connection that helps to lift the heavy burden of our grief.
07/14/2024
Saturday mornings remind us to take a gentle pause, allowing ourselves to feel our grief deeply. In the quiet of the morning, we find a sacred space to reflect on the love and cherished moments that forever remain in our hearts. It’s a time to honor our memories, letting our hearts open to the sorrow and the enduring bonds we share with those we've lost. Let Saturday mornings be a tender reminder to embrace our feelings and hold close to the love that endures.
07/08/2024
for us parents, grandparents, and siblings...
When we lose a child, the grief is overwhelming and all-consuming. But what many don’t realize are the secondary losses that come with it. The ripple effects touch every part of our lives. Friendships may change as people struggle to understand our pain. Hobbies and activities that once brought joy now feel empty. Even our sense of self can shift, as we grapple with a future that looks so different from what we imagined.
These secondary losses can feel isolating, adding layers to the already profound grief. But in these moments, it's important to reach out and connect with others who understand. Together we can share these hidden sorrows and support each other through the many facets of loss.
We need to give ourselves permission to mourn not just our children, but also the life we thought we’d have with them. Together, we can acknowledge these secondary losses, find comfort in shared experiences, and slowly begin to piece together a new way forward. We are here to hold each other up and honor all the losses we bear.
06/18/2024
a reminder that if you need someone to talk to please come to our BPUSA Suffolk County NY Chapter Monthly Meeting tomorrow, Tuesday, 6/18, 7pm at the American Legion Post 651, 23 Foster Ave, Sayville, NY 11782. Refreshments will be provided. Please share with anyone interested... https://www.facebook.com/events/437458252524764/
Today our hearts are with the dads who had to give them back…
🦋
Lend me your hope for a while,
I seem to have mislaid mine.
Lost and hopeless feelings accompany me daily.
Pain and confusion are my companions.
I know not where to turn.
Looking ahead to future times
Does not bring forth images of renewed hope.
I see mirthless times, pain-filled days,
and more tragedy.
Lend me your hope for a while,
I seem to have mislaid mine.
Hold my hand and hug me,
Listen to all my ramblings,
I need to unleash the pain and let it tumble out.
Recovery seems so far distant,
The road to healing a long and lonely one.
Lend me your hope for a while,
I seem to have mislaid mine.
Stand by me, offer me your presence,
Your ears and your love.
Acknowledge my pain, it is so real and ever present.
I am overwhelmed with sad and conflicting thoughts.
Lend me your hope for a while.
A time will come when I will heal,
And I will lend my renewed hope to others.
a reminder that our next BPUSA Suffolk County Chapter Monthly Dinner will be held tomorrow, Tuesday, April 9th at 6:30 PM, at the Holbrook Diner. Please share this with anyone interested and let Phyllis know if you are coming. Hope to see you there... https://www.facebook.com/events/407818211944412/
As the moon is about to pass in front of the sun, I'm reminded of how grief can sometimes overshadow our happiness. It's like a dark cloud that temporarily blocks the sun's light. But you know what? It can't erase the beauty of the moments we've shared with our loved ones. Those memories still shine brightly, guiding us through the darkness.
💛
04/03/2024
a reminder that due to the weather, our next BPUSA Suffolk County Chapter Monthly Dinner will be held Tuesday, April 9th at 6:30 PM, at the Holbrook Diner. Please share this with anyone interested and let Phyllis know if you are coming. Hope to see you there... https://www.facebook.com/events/407818211944412/
These words resonate deeply with anyone who has experienced loss. Grief is not a static state; it ebbs and flows, shifting like the tides of the sea. It can be overwhelming one moment and quietly present in the next. Yet, one thing remains constant - it never truly ends.
Grief is a journey, a path we walk with heavy hearts and tear-stained cheeks. It changes us, shaping us into beings who carry the weight of loss while seeking moments of lightness and healing. It transforms over time, but its presence is always felt, a silent companion in our daily lives.
Despite its ever-changing nature, grief is a testament to the love we hold for those we've lost. It is the price we pay for loving deeply, a reminder of the beautiful connections we shared with our loved ones. And while it may never truly end, it can evolve into a source of strength and resilience. 💙
02/07/2024
a reminder that our next Suffolk County Chapter Monthly Dinner will be held tomorrow, Wednesday, February 7th , 6:00 PM, at the Holbrook Diner. Hope to see you there...
Journey of Love, the
Bereaved Parents of the USA National Gathering Conference will be held in Herndon, Virginia, from July 26th to July 28th.
Early Bird registration begins on February 14th.❤️
Amidst the journey of love in child loss, grandchild loss, and sibling loss, discover solace and connection at the Bereaved Parents of the USA National Gathering. This sacred gathering becomes a haven for hearts navigating the delicate path of grief. Come, and share in the warmth of understanding and compassion, as we honor the enduring love that transcends loss.
Early bird registration, opening on Valentine's Day, invites you to be part of this healing community for $75. It's an opportunity to embrace a network of support, to learn from shared experiences, and to find strength in unity. More information will follow.
Check this page frequently to stay updated with registration information and gathering news.
Remember that your heart is not alone, and in the embrace of shared love, we find the courage to navigate the complexities of grief. ❤️
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We are the parents whose children have died. We are the siblings whose brothers and sisters no longer walk with us through life. We are the grandparents who have buried grandchildren.
We come together as Bereaved Parents of the USA, Suffolk County, NY Chapter to provide a safe space where grieving families can connect, share our stories, and learn to rebuild our lives.
We attend meetings whenever we can and for as long as we find helpful. We share our fears, confusion, anger, guilt, frustrations, emptiness, and feelings of hopelessness, knowing these emotions will be met with compassion and understanding. As we support, comfort and encourage one another, we offer hope and healing. As we confront the deaths of our loved ones, our shared grief brings us to a common ground that transcends differences, building mutual understanding across the boundaries of culture, race, faith, values, abilities, and lifestyle.
Together we celebrate the lives of our children, siblings, and grandchildren, sharing the joys and the heartbreaks as well as the love that will never fade. Together, strengthened by the bonds we create, we offer what we have learned from one another to every bereaved family, no matter how recent or long ago the death.
We are non-denominational and meet the 3rd Monday of every month at 7:30 pm in the church hall building to the left of:
St. Paul’s Episcopal Church, 31 Rider Avenue, Patchogue, New York 11772
If the church parking lot is full, you can park right across the street in the Downtown Patchogue free Parking Lot 4.
We are the Bereaved Parents of the USA, Suffolk County, NY Chapter. We welcome you.
