Elevating with Mercy

Elevating with Mercy Providing individual, couples and family therapy in the Tampa area. Let's Elevate Together 💜

Sometimes the anxiety isn’t the problem…it’s how quickly we respond to it.When everything feels urgent, we tend to:react...
04/17/2026

Sometimes the anxiety isn’t the problem…
it’s how quickly we respond to it.

When everything feels urgent, we tend to:
react fast, decide fast, speak fast—
just to escape the feeling.

But anxiety speeds you up.

Healing slows you down.

A pause creates space between
what you feel and what you choose.

That space is where regulation happens.

That space is where clarity lives.

Before your next decision, try this:

✨ Pause Practice
Take one slow breath in through your nose…
hold for 3 seconds…
then exhale slowly through your mouth.

Now ask yourself:

“What is my body trying to tell me right now?”

Not what your fear is saying.
Not what urgency is pushing.
But what your body actually needs.

💬 Check-in:

Do you tend to react quickly when anxious, or can you pause first?

Comment “PAUSE” if you’re practicing slowing down today 💛

✨ Currently accepting new clients (13+)
📍Virtual sessions available
📩 DM to be sent booking link or click the link in bio
📞 813-279-8454

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Sometimes guilt shows up when you start doing something new — like setting boundaries, choosing yourself, or responding ...
03/27/2026

Sometimes guilt shows up when you start doing something new — like setting boundaries, choosing yourself, or responding differently than you used to.

Many people were taught to prioritize others’ comfort over their own needs, so healthy limits can feel uncomfortable at first. That discomfort is often growth, not wrongdoing.

Reminders you may need today:

• I can be kind and still say no.
• Their reaction belongs to them.
• I am responsible for my behavior, not their feelings.
• Setting limits is not harm.

Guilt can be information, but it isn’t always truth. Sometimes it’s just evidence that you’re breaking old patterns and learning healthier ones.

💭 What boundary are you learning to hold lately?

✨ Currently accepting new clients (13+)
📍Virtual sessions available
📩 DM to be sent booking link or click the link in bio
📞 813-279-8454

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Is your body trying to say something your mind hasn’t fully acknowledged yet?Sometimes anxiety isn’t random — sometimes ...
03/11/2026

Is your body trying to say something your mind hasn’t fully acknowledged yet?

Sometimes anxiety isn’t random — sometimes it’s information.

The tight chest.

The constant overthinking.

The urge to stay busy or repeat the same patterns just to feel okay.

Your body often notices what feels heavy before you can put it into words.

✨ Pause and check in with yourself today:
What situation or relationship has been feeling heavy lately?

Drop ONE word in the comments describing how you’ve been feeling lately 👇

🫶 Grounding tip:

Place one hand on your chest, take a slow deep breath in through your nose, and exhale longer than you inhale. Do this 3 times while quietly naming one emotion you’re feeling. Awareness helps your nervous system settle.

✨ Currently accepting new clients (13+)
📍Virtual sessions available
📩 DM to be sent booking link or click the link in bio
📞 813-279-8454

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You are not behind.You are not late.You are not failing.You are simply living on a timeline that is uniquely yours.Socie...
02/18/2026

You are not behind.

You are not late.

You are not failing.

You are simply living on a timeline that is uniquely yours.

Society will try to rush you:

• Be married by this age
• Have kids by this age
• Make a certain income
• Be “over it” by now

But healing doesn’t follow deadlines. Growth doesn’t compete. And your life is not a group project.

If you’re rebuilding, grieving, pivoting, starting over, or choosing a path that looks different — that is not failure. That is courage.
Your journey only needs to make sense to you.
And sometimes the strongest thing you can do is stop measuring your life by someone else’s clock.

“What’s one expectation you’re releasing this season?”

✨ Currently accepting new clients (13+)
📍Virtual sessions available
📩 DM to be sent booking link or click the link in bio
📞 813-279-8454

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Healing doesn’t move in a straight line. Some days feel lighter, others feel heavy, and sometimes it feels like you’re r...
02/04/2026

Healing doesn’t move in a straight line. Some days feel lighter, others feel heavy, and sometimes it feels like you’re right back where you started. That doesn’t mean you’re failing — it means you’re human.

Therapy is a journey of understanding yourself more deeply, unlearning survival patterns, and building new ways to cope, connect, and grow. Progress can be slow, messy, and emotional… but every step still counts.

Be gentle with yourself. Growth takes time, and you deserve support along the way.

Need help realigning your life? Call or text 813-279-8454 or use the link in bio to get started. Let’s elevate together 💜

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We are pleased to announce Elevating with Mercy will be back in full affect 2026 ✨️We now accept insurance!!!!!So many n...
12/31/2025

We are pleased to announce Elevating with Mercy will be back in full affect 2026 ✨️

We now accept insurance!!!!!

So many new exciting things to come this upcoming year, stay tuned 📺

Need help realigning your life, give me a call 813-415-7170. Let's elevate together 💜🙌🏾!

Mental health awareness month 💚Take time to reflect on your overall well-being. Your life, your journey, but you don't h...
05/21/2024

Mental health awareness month 💚

Take time to reflect on your overall well-being.

Your life, your journey, but you don't have to go through it alone ✨️

Need help realigning your life, DM me, or call. Let's elevate together 💜🙌🏾!

Contact me today at Elevating with Mercy consulting for therapy or coaching services 813-415-7170.

Resources:

The 988 Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention, and crisis resources

5....4....3.....2....1 💭5 things you see 👀4 things you can touch 🤲🏾3 things you can hear 🎶2 things you can smell💐1 thing...
03/28/2024

5....4....3.....2....1 💭

5 things you see 👀

4 things you can touch 🤲🏾

3 things you can hear 🎶

2 things you can smell💐

1 thing you can taste 🍽

Utilizing your 5 senses can help bring you to a place of peace

One mental, virtual, or physical image could be the dividing factor from regulating your emotions to acting impulsively.

Healing is not a linear process 🧘🏾‍♀️There will be times of relapses, impulsive reactions, and stagnation, but these obs...
02/26/2024

Healing is not a linear process 🧘🏾‍♀️

There will be times of relapses, impulsive reactions, and stagnation, but these obstacles should not derail your commitment to being consistent with your personal growth and development.

Ask yourself the miracle question: How would life look if that miracle was answered?

What practical steps can you take now to achieve a glimpse of that miracle?

Need help realigning your life, DM me, or call. Let's elevate together 💜🙌🏾!

Contact me today at Elevating with Mercy consulting for therapy or coaching services 813-415-7170.

These traumas can be emotional abuse, physical abuse or neglect, abandonment, witnessing abuse or neglect, absent parent...
12/02/2021

These traumas can be emotional abuse, physical abuse or neglect, abandonment, witnessing abuse or neglect, absent parent, emotional neglect, divorce, and substance abuse.

Often times we attempt to suppress emotions from these traumas in order to not "relive" them. But our traumas are absorbed by the brain and packed away until triggered by smells, sounds, familiar settings or similar people. Emotional suppression causes negative adverse affects and maladaptive coping skills.

🚩If triggered, potential negative reactions:
-Anger
-Depression
-Anxiety
-Guilt tripping
-Numbness
-Lost of control

You will continually go through the same experiences over time in different settings or with different people until you choose to feel and heal.

✅ Ways to work on suppressed emotions from childhood traumas:

-Work with a therapist
-Identify your triggers
-Develop a crisis plan
-Observe your physical symptoms when being triggered
-Develop self care plan
-mindfulness training
-recollect times that alter or freeze your mood and document them
-Open communication and reflective communication
-Set boundaries
-Be transparent

I'm sorry you've experienced these pains in your life, you didn't deserve that but you are heard. You can't change your childhood experiences, but you can take ownership over your life starting now. This means taking accountability for your actions and reactions in the future now that you are aware of what the trauma has caused.

Need help realigning your life, website link in the bio or DM me. Let's elevate together 💜🙌🏾!

Contact me today at Elevating with Mercy consulting for therapy or coaching services  813-906-9739.

This simple message applies to all aspect of your life. If another student is doing the same topic for a class project, ...
11/16/2021

This simple message applies to all aspect of your life.

If another student is doing the same topic for a class project, you can do it too just make it your own.

If you're in a relationship, and your spouse wants to go back to school allow them to do so while you find something you may want to accomplish at the same time that doesn't interfere with what their doing.

Or maybe you ran across someone with the same business idea as you and got discouraged. Don't stop, make your business unique and keep pushing.

Taking a pause is one thing but completely putting your life on hold is unfair to you and your potential, this is where mastery of compromise comes into play.

Surround yourself around other's who don't mind you shining too, there's room for everyone at the top ✨.

Who said we can't all shine together 😃

Need help realigning your life, website link in the bio or DM me. Let's elevate together 💜🙌🏾!

Contact me today at Elevating with Mercy consulting for therapy or coaching services  813-906-9739.

Take those moments as a learning opportunity to self reflect and potentially grow into someone who is more self aware. W...
11/12/2021

Take those moments as a learning opportunity to self reflect and potentially grow into someone who is more self aware.

We're all humans, we all make mistakes. How will you grow from yours?

Happy Friday 😊, what's your self care for this weekend?

I already have my self care planned out 🎢

Need help realigning your life, website link in the bio or DM me. Let's elevate together 💜🙌🏾!

Contact me today at Elevating with Mercy consulting for therapy or coaching services  813-906-9739.

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