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Gently and quietly, Alan Paulsen, 78, died in the early evening of Resurrection Day, 5 April 2026, attended by his famil...
04/27/2026

Gently and quietly, Alan Paulsen, 78, died in the early evening of Resurrection Day, 5 April 2026, attended by his family as he faded from this life into eternal life. Alan loved finding a scenic vista for a photograph at about that time of day, so we believe he is marveling at the glories of his new home and composing more of his great photos to show us someday.

Born on 24 June 1947 to Herbert and Alma (Marohn) Paulsen in Trenton NJ, Alan is survived by his wife, Nancy (Underwood) Paulsen and sons Robert, Toby (Kyra) and Maxwell; a sister, Nancy Ann Paulsen, and a brother, John Paulsen. Also survived by in-laws Will (Kathy) Underwood, Christopher (Heidi) Underwood, and Susan (Don) Haley as well as 4 nephews and 3 nieces.

After graduating from high school, Alan bought a Rabbit motor scooter and rode it to Indiana and back before enlisting in the US Navy in 1965. He was a storekeeper on USS Corporal (SS-346) until a bad motorcycle accident ended his ability to remain in the Navy. Not that he intended to make it a career – he always told us that diesel boat sailors and nuclear Navy sailors didn’t play well together. However, motorcycling remained his great love until his health began to decline. Over his lifetime, he managed to rack up more than one million miles on quite a large variety of motorcycles. On his 2002 BMW K1200LT, he received a certificate from BMW confirming 300,000 miles on that long distance touring bike. Sport riders will probably recognize the Tail of the Dragon, which he enjoyed immensely on several occasions. Although usually averse to anything that resembled a gimmick to extract funds, he purchased at least one photo of himself on the Tail and hung it proudly over his desk. He rode a motorcycle in all 50 states and almost every Canadian province. Never content to simply hop on an interstate freeway unless unavoidable, he took several trips to Alaska as well as an organized tour to Italy and Switzerland. His first trip to Alaska in 1971 included the unpaved Alcan Highway, although on our last family road trip with the younger boys in 2016, he opted to hitch a ride on a resupply charter down the St. Lawrence rather than haul his BMW over the unpaved Trans-Labrador Highway.

After his discharge from the Navy in 1970, Alan packed all his possessions on the back of his motorcycle and headed west to Los Angeles and yet more long West Coast rides before enrolling in LA Trade Tech’s motorcycle repair program in 1972, under the tutelage of his mentor and friend, the late Pat Owens. But his love of writing and scenic photography drew him into the journalism program at Trade Tech and he got another associate’s degree before landing at Rider Magazine as Managing Editor in 1981. It was there that he met his wife, Nancy, as part of a women’s only tour test ride that Rider organized. She showed up with a hair dryer and curling iron in her tank bag, much to his bafflement. They were married on 17 Sep 1983 after Nancy finished her initial boot camp and Navy technical training. Soon after, they moved to Washington DC. Nancy received an NROTC scholarship and Alan became a motorcycle courier to support them, delivering film and all manner of documents in the pre-internet days. He worked as a dedicated courier for the Associated Press during several key diplomatic events and obtained his own photos of them, which he proudly displayed in print albums.

In 1994, he welcomed his firstborn and became the stay-at-home dad of a baby boy while Nancy continued her Navy career. He came late to fatherhood, but he approached it with the same level of care and diligence as he did for everything else: to the best of his ability and without complaint. Two more boys came in 2000 and 2004. He fixed broken toys, tended owwies, taught them “Dad’s Rules for Life,” and so much more. He could do make-believe and coax them out of a tantrum far better than mom could. He had a special list of old songs he’d sing at bedtime in a rumbly bass, like “Big John,” “Ringo,” and “Ghost Riders in the Sky.” He taught them to take care of their tools and put things away when they finished a project. He patiently picked up and moved to wherever the Navy sent them; he could pack a U-Haul tighter than anyone else. This included 5 times across the country with some combination of cats and kids of various ages, plus a move to Japan and back when Robert was little.

Alan was a practical craftsman who prized excellence in whatever he built. He painstakingly built or finished several pieces of furniture including a reproduction antique cradle that will be passed down for a long time. He could turn ideas that Nancy dreamed up into well-executed solutions, and he saw to it that things got repaired and projects were completed. He wasn’t vocal about his feelings – Nancy used to tease him that when it came to emotions and personal thoughts, he spoke as if he were being charged by the word. He did bring flowers sometimes, although his rants about coercive Valentine’s Day expectations were epic. But he showed his love by his faithful attention to all that needed to be done and did it well. He made sure that Nancy’s shoes and boots got quality care, attended numerous musical recitals and concerts, and would loudly declare, “Perfecto!” while preparing his repertoire of favorite recipes for the family. He faithfully attended as many of his sons’ school, sport and extracurricular activities as possible, despite chronic pain from the motorcycle accident at the end of his time in the Navy which made walking more difficult. And he put up with Nancy and the usual hubbub of children’s activities even when he would have preferred quiet or being on the road.

After Nancy retired from the Navy in the summer of 2006, we moved from San Diego to upstate New York and settled here. Now it was Nancy’s turn to be the at-home parent, and Alan quickly made up for lost riding time when the boys were younger. He averaged nearly 20,000 miles each riding season for 15 years in order to complete his verified million miles on a motorcycle. He wrote many touring articles for Rider magazine as time and family availability permitted. He begrudgingly made the transition to a digital camera which he came to appreciate a lot more than he expected.

Alan loved the classic horror writers, jazz, classical music, great craft beer (rarely lighter than an amber, and never an IPA), Western movies (especially Leone and other spaghetti greats), and anything with Clint Eastwood or Kirk Douglas. He enjoyed editing the newspaper while he read it, making sure his boys knew how to spot an improperly formatted headline. He adopted the Los Angeles Dodgers as his team when he moved to California, and they remained so from then on. He had hoped he would live to watch one final Masters golf tournament (he got to see the Dodgers win their opening game), but God had other plans.

Finally, in the twilight of his life as he was growing weaker from scleroderma complications and contending with pulmonary fibrosis, the Holy Spirit brought him to faith in his Savior. He was baptized in December 2025 and started hospice care the same week. He joined Nancy in a private family Holy Communion in March and was persuaded to remain resolute long enough to have one first- and as it turned out, last- celebration of the Lord’s Supper with his entire family on Holy Saturday. All three of our boys and our daughter-in-law partook Holy Communion with him. Less than 24 hours later, he was seated at the Wedding Supper of the Lamb, no longer tired and struggling. He did everything Nancy asked him to do for this final precious time with his family and we could let him go in peace. We miss him so much but we rejoice that he is safe in heaven.

He donated his body to ScienceCare in hopes that the gift of his body will increase the ability of doctors to treat others with similar ailments. We will have a memorial service at King of Kings Lutheran Church, Clifton Park NY in July 2026.

04/14/2026

Calling hours for Joan Lewis Hickling who passed away on Sunday February 15, 2026 will be from 2:00PM to 4:00PM on Saturday May 2nd at Delker and Terry Funeral Home 30 South Street Edmeston, NY. A celebration of Joan's life will follow at 4:00PM at the funeral home.

Mary Clare Stephens of Oriskany Falls, formerly of Edmeston, NY, went to her eternal home with the Lord on April 9th, 20...
04/12/2026

Mary Clare Stephens of Oriskany Falls, formerly of Edmeston, NY, went to her eternal home with the Lord on April 9th, 2026. Born in Hartwick and raised on Snowden Hill, she was deeply devoted to her faith, regularly visiting her church family, and cherished time with her loved ones above all else.

She was the daughter of Rodger and Shirley Sutton. Mary Clare married Bruce Stevens, and together they established their home on Dutch Valley Road, owning 10.75 acres located two and a half miles from the local school. She enjoyed gardening and caring for animals, including chickens and rabbits.

Over the years, she welcomed numerous children into her home, which served as a gathering place for activities such as basketball, football, or movie nights. Her generosity extended to baking and cooking for all who visited.

Mary Clare was actively involved in several organizations within the community and served as a local pastor in multiple churches. Following the sale of their home, she and Bruce moved to Oriskany Falls and became members of the United Methodist Church, where she contributed as substitute pastor and participated in various church committees.

She is survived by her husband Bruce, her children Luke (Sarah) and Kady (Cameron), granddaughter Cassidy, and brother John Hatch (Sue). Additionally, she is remembered by her adopted son Jeff Arnold and his family: wife Denise, daughter Susan, and son James (Vicky), whose three sons and daughter were her great-grandchildren. She also has a daughter, Destiny Curl, who was very close to Mary Clare. Mary Clare also leaves behind a niece, Maria, five nephews, five great nephews, and many other children who considered her their adopted mother.

She was predeceased by her parents, Rodger and Shirley Sutton, and three brothers, James Sutton Johanson, James Hovick, and Michael Greenholz.

Mary Clare maintained a steadfast faith and often spoke of her belief in going home to heaven. She valued the friendships she formed within her church community.

A memorial service will be held at the Oriskany Falls United Methodist Church at a later date. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the United Methodist Church in Oriskany Falls.

04/05/2026
Katherine Faith Gray, 31, of Whitney Point, NY went home to be with Jesus on April 1, 2026.She is predeceased by her par...
04/03/2026

Katherine Faith Gray, 31, of Whitney Point, NY went home to be with Jesus on April 1, 2026.

She is predeceased by her parents Trygva and Rose Rydberg.
She is survived by her husband of 5 years, Jonathan, her daughter Leah, adoptive parents Ron and Miriam Maslin, siblings Eileen, Darren (Kendra), Justin (Kaitlyn), Jeremy (Kirsten), Leo, Dakota, Ang, and Chloe, and in laws Scott and Carlita Heeman. She is also survived by many cousins, aunts, uncles, nieces, and nephews.

Katie’s first love was family. Being able to see her daughter Leah’s first year of life was a precious gift. Katie enjoyed baking and would share her treats with others. She had a way with older folks and found joy when she had opportunities to serve them.

Katie was no stranger to hardship, but her pure and simple faith brought joy from sorrow and allowed her to see God at work.

Our family wants to thank all of those that gave their time to support Katie and be there for her. Her infectious, sweet smile will always be remembered.

A celebration of Katie’s life will be held on Friday April 10th at 11:00AM at Point Bible Church, 2938 State Rt 11, Whitney Point. The family will receive friends from 10:00AM until the time of the celebration at the church. A luncheon will follow the services.

Marlene A. Shipman, 88 of New Berlin, passed away on Tuesday February 24, 2026 in Norwich, NY.Marlene was born on August...
02/26/2026

Marlene A. Shipman, 88 of New Berlin, passed away on Tuesday February 24, 2026 in Norwich, NY.

Marlene was born on August 4, 1937 in Westford, NY the daughter of the late Walter J and Blanche (Snyder) Laymon. In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her husband John Joseph Carney Jr in 1970, her son Timothy John in 1971, her sisters Anita and Katie, her brothers Leland, Darwin, Frank, and Reggie, and her grandchildren Roxanne and Michael and her second husband George Shipman.

She is survived by her sons Walter J (Carolyn) Carney of Edmeston, Shawn P Carney of Sauquoit, John J Carney III of Bridgewater, Matthew John (Amy) Carney of Newfield, Mark S Carney of New Berlin, and George (Melissa) Shipman Jr of New Berlin, her daughters Ginger (Mike) Joslin of New Berlin, Pamela Carney of North Brookfield, and Tresa (Glade) Baldwin II of West Edmeston, her brothers Stanley (Edna) Laymon of GA, and Junior (Bev) Laymon of Bridgewater, her grandchildren Joel (Danielle), Shannon (Nichole), LaShawn, Erin (Christian), Erica (Shawn), Jessica (Justin), Timmy, Ginger (Ernie), Charlene, Daniel, Stephanie (Danny), Jennifer (Keith), Samantha, Glade III, and Sarah (Louis). She is also survived by many great grand and great great grandchildren and nieces and nephews.

Raised in Westford, Marlene moved to the Edmeston area at the age of 15. She was employed with the Otsego School, now Pathfinder Village, caring for children with Down Syndrome. At the age of 18, she married John Joseph Carney Jr. He passed in 1970. Marlene loved her family and raised nine children. She will be remembered as a loving mother, grandmother, great grandmother. She was a fan of Bluegrass, music festivals, and loved to dance. She was also a whiz at word search puzzles.

Calling hours will be Saturday February 28 from 1:00P.M. to 3:00P.M. at the Delker and Terry Funeral Home 30 South Street Edmeston, NY. A celebration of her life will immediately follow at 3:00P.M. at the funeral home. Spring interment will be in Edmeston Union Cemetery.

Donations may be made to the charity of one’s choice in loving memory of Marlene.

02/18/2026

Matthew Hale Kusko, 56, of Oneonta, passed away unexpectedly at his home on January 29, 2026.

Matt was a lifelong resident of the Oneonta area. He was the adopted son of Andy and Jean Kusko, who owned the Long River Inn in Unadilla.

Matt was a very kind and considerate man. Although largely thought of as a loner, Matt would be the first one to hold the door open for you. If he thought you needed help with something, he would always be ready and willing to assist.

Matt loved cars and had several of them over the course of his life. He loved to talk about them all the time. He had a soft voice but still liked to sing. Despite his love of cars, he was someone you would likely see walking the streets of Oneonta, as he was an avid walker, even talking about walking a lot! He preferred walking to other methods of transportation.

He loved collecting baseball caps, had several, and had his favorites, often interchanging them.

Although Matt had a tough life, he always managed to smile and laugh. He had a great sense of humor and was an extremely easy person to fall in love with.

Matt left this world too soon, but several years before he left us, he found the Elm Park United Methodist Church in Oneonta who became his family. Many of its parishioners had earlier life connections to Matt, including many of their children having grown up with and played with him as children. Matt would often show up to church hours before the service began because he loved being there. Matt was very appreciative of the kindness and compassion he found at Elm Park and in life in general, always thankful for what he had.

Matt is and will continue to be sorely missed. He is finally in a place where he can know the peace he so greatly deserved during his time with us.

Graveside services will be held in the spring in Edmeston Union Cemetery.

Joan Lewis Hickling, 87, of Burlington Flats, passed away peacefully on Sunday February 15, 2026 in Oneonta. Joan was bo...
02/18/2026

Joan Lewis Hickling, 87, of Burlington Flats, passed away peacefully on Sunday February 15, 2026 in Oneonta.

Joan was born on August 20, 1938 in Thurston, NY the daughter of the late Porter Jay and Mary E. (Manning) Lewis. In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her sons David and Nathan, a brother Wilber, and a sister Joyce.

Joan was educated in Delhi, NY, and was involved in many high school sports, graduating in 1956.

She accepted Jesus Christ as her savior at the age of 17 by listening to Billy Graham on the radio.

She met the love of her life, Alton at a dance, and they were married on September 1, 1956. They enjoyed 69 years together on their farm in Burlington Flats. Joan loved farming and enjoyed milking the cows and cropping the hay. They operated the farm for 55 years until they sold, and retired.

Together, they raised six children, David, Calvin (Diana), Brian (Terry), Norman (Daryl), Karen (Dwayne), and Nathan (Tonye). In addition, she is also survived by ten grand and sixteen great grandchildren.

Joan’s hobbies were playing the piano and organ, ceramics, and singing or listening to the old style gospel hymns. In her retirement, she especially enjoyed painting.

She was a long time member of the Unadilla Forks Baptist Church.

Calling hours and a celebration of life will be at a day and time to be announced in the very near future.

Donations may be made to Helios Care 297 River Street Oneonta, NY 13820 or the Unadilla Forks Baptist Church in loving memory of Joan.

02/08/2026

Arthur E Geier Jr, 89, of New Berlin, passed away at his home on January 25, 2026.

He was born on March 11, 1936 in New Jersey the son of the late Arthur E. and Anna (Scrivner) Geier Sr. In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by his wife Arlene A Geier in 2000, a daughter Mariann O’Shield, a son Mark Geier, a brother Bill, and sisters Anna, Edna, Edith, and Helen.

He is survived by his daughters Kathy Geier of New Berlin, and Sherri (Michael) Pandorf of PA, a sister Carol Geier of WA, many grand and great grandchildren, along with many nieces and nephews.

Arthur was raised in New Jersey and joined the United States Marines after high school graduation. He was honorably discharged in 1961 at the rank of Sergeant.

He was an electrician by trade and operated his business in NJ until he relocated to New Berlin in the mid 1990’s. He continued his time as an electrician until his retirement. He enjoyed spending time in his “office” on the computer, and hosting Friday Night Pizza at home for his family and friends.

He loved his family, and always made sure Kathy was well cared for. He was a long-time member of the Kingdon Hall of Jehovah’s Witnesses in Schuyler Lake.

A memorial service will be held on Saturday February 14th at 2:00PM at Kingdom Hall of Jehovah’s Witnesses 7396 NY Rt 28 in Schuyler Lake, NY. Interrment will be next to his wife in NJ at a later date.

Donations may be made to the Kingdon Hall of Jehovah’s Witnesses 7396 NY Rt 28 Schuyler Lake, NY 13457 in memory of Arthur.

Musa Athena (Green) Hawes, 93, of New Berlin, passed away peacefully at her home on Friday January 30th.Musa was born on...
02/01/2026

Musa Athena (Green) Hawes, 93, of New Berlin, passed away peacefully at her home on Friday January 30th.

Musa was born on July 2, 1932 at Tassel Hill in Waterville, NY the daughter of the late Leander Hall and Musa Ruth (Barton) Green. In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her husband Adrian Lee Hawes, her siblings Daniel Green, Benjamin H Green, Richard Irving Green, and Leander Hall Green Jr.

She is survived by her children Donna Marie Hawes, Diane (Fred) Wagner, Debra (Ed) Stevens, and Daryl (Jodi Wright) Hawes, her grandchildren William Wagner, Kevin Wagner, Michael (Sharon) Stevens, John (Susan Arnold) Hawes, Maryellen (Michael) Kelly, Patti Rose (Peter) Pierce, and Daryl Hawes Jr, her great grandchildren Ethan Wagner, Victoria Stevens, Peter Hawes, Alicia Stevens, Owen Wagner, Tyler Kelly, Finley Pierce, Aurora Hawes, Cascade Hawes, and twins Jessica and Trevor Kelly. Also surviving are her sister Joyce White, and many nieces and nephews.

Musa was educated in the Mott School, a one room schoolhouse, at Peck Corners from the age of 7 until she attended the Leonardsville Central School, and Edmeston Central School.

She married Adrian Lee Hawes on April 23, 1949, and they resided in Leonardsville, and West Edmeston for many years. She described herself as a “Farmerette” as she worked along side Adrian while raising their family.

She was an avid reader, and collected teapots, with a collection in the hundreds. She also crocheted, sewed quilts, and knitted many hats, scarves, and pairs of mittens over her life. Musa was also a talented musician, playing trombone in school, and piano and organ at several local churches over the years.

Calling hours will be from 1:00 to 2:00 on Sunday February 8th at Delker and Terry Funeral Home 30 South Street Edmeston. A funeral service will immediately follow at 2:00PM at the funeral home.

Interment will be in Burlington Flats Cemetery in the Spring.

Dennis J. Chamberlain 67 passed away in Cooperstown on January 19th 2026 after a long illness. He was born in Oneonta NY...
02/01/2026

Dennis J. Chamberlain 67 passed away in Cooperstown on January 19th 2026 after a long illness.

He was born in Oneonta NY on January 28, 1958, and was a proud “lower decker”. He was a fantastic artist, a gift he kept hidden. He traveled west and was a master carpenter for a large construction firm. He earned the nickname Ali, as he sure could “ float like a butterfly and sting like a bee.” Well-traveled, he always found his way home,

He was predeceased by his parents, Donald and Gertrude (Hebbard) Chamberlain, his two brothers Donald Jr and Darry, and his three sisters Donna Chamberlain, Darlene Huestis, and Denise Grant.

He is survived by his former wife, Susan and his daughter Stacy Chamberlain, his son Brandon Chamberlain, his grandchildren Alexia, Carmen, Mya and Ilijah, his great granddaughter Leilani, and his two sisters Dawna Ross and Debbie Keller, along with several nieces, nephews, and cousins.

In addition, he is also survived by his three “ride or die” buddies: Mike Green, Francis Huestis and Art Shaw
At his request, services will be private and at the convenience of the family.

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