07/31/2025
📚I have jokingly said that when I die, I want imprinted on my gravestone that my greatest accomplishment in life was teaching 6 children to read. I joke, but IYKYK.
⭐️With my combined experience teaching my own children to read, and also working with tons of children as an OT, I have learned a few things that I want to share regarding reading.
1️⃣Like ALL learning, reading should be taught with a developmentally ready approach. Since we know that development isn’t linear, then we should squash the idea that all children should be able to read by a certain age. I hate to break it to you, but if you try to teach it BEFORE they are developmentally ready, you will be repetitively banging your head up against a wall and end up with a child who hates reading. I may or may not have experience with this 😉
2️⃣ You’ve heard the quote, “Children are made readers on the laps of their parents.” Yes, there is an abundance of research that discusses the benefits of reading to your children at a young age, don’t think that the insane amount of hours you put in reading didn’t pay off if your child isn’t reading until 9. This was me with my first. I literally was like “what the heck, I slaved my life away reading every picture book on this planet, yet she didn’t read fluently until she was 9 y.o!”Guess who is off the charts for reading comprehension now? Yep, my 17 y.o. (9 y.o. reader). Sometimes it’s a marathon, not a sprint.
3️⃣The age at which a child reads is NOT PREDICTIVE of whether they will have a LOVE for reading.
4️⃣Even if you have 6 children, you aren’t guaranteed a child who just “naturally” teaches themselves to read. That was always wild to me when a parent would say, “I didn’t have to teach them at all, they just taught themselves.” Well good for you, apparently the Lord didn’t see fit to give me one of “those” children. It probably had something to do with my own sanctification. 🤣
➡️I have a lot more thoughts, but captions are limited, so I will leave it at this. Reading is a skill based on developmental readiness, give them time.❤️