11/01/2025
This November, for National Adoption Awareness Month, we're expanding the conversation.
For too long, has centered the perspectives of adoptive parents and agencies. The stories have focused on "forever families" while often silencing the complex, lifelong experiences of adoptees themselves.
True awareness means moving beyond simple celebration and listening to the voices at the very center of adoption: Adoptees 💜
Centering adoptees isn't just a suggestion; it's a requirement for ethical adoption. This means:
🍂 In Planning: Adoptees must be at the table and paid for their expertise, in planning ALL adoption-related events, panels, and discussions.
🍂 In Advocacy: Adoptee-led organizations and individuals must be the driving force behind policy changes, like unrestricted access to original birth certificates and accountability for unethical agency practices.
🍂 In Support: Post-adoption support must be redesigned by adoptees for adoptees, addressing the realities of grief, loss, identity, and trauma, not just parenting tips.
"Nothing about us without us" is the standard.
This , pass the mic. Listen to adoptees. Amplify their stories. Support their work.