
09/12/2025
Isn’t this something.
In the prefrontal cortex and linked to the amygdala, we have a circuit that essentially manages our emotional resilience. Each time we face a challenge and push through it, the circuit grows stronger. In other words, the brain learns to bounce back more efficiently with practice, much like how a muscle develops the more you use it. The challenge is, this circuit can get easily overused and burned out when we are in chronic stress environments or don't heal from prior traumas.
Neuroplasticity helps to shape this circuit by reinforcing the idea that when there is healthy stress on the system, there is recovery, resolve, and strengthening. We want this circuit to be challenged. This is the importance of trying new or challenging things, and not trying to raise our children in a way where they have no adversity at all. These challenges are helpful with the right support and right resolve.
Interestingly, practices like problem-solving, mindfulness, or gradually taking on small challenges can actually rewire the brain to recover faster if you find yourself in a position where you have a tough time recovering from certain setbacks.
It's also important to note there is another layer here of prior traumas. Some setbacks may be a lot harder than others if they are touching on deeper wounds from our past.