Dr Laura Pauly PhD

Dr Laura Pauly PhD Psychological counseling/consultation for Individuals, couples, families, and organizations. Confiden Psychologist

Reflections on theFull Flower MoonFull moon in ScorpioMay DayBeltaneMy Wish for YouMay your fears melt away.May your hea...
05/02/2026

Reflections on the
Full Flower Moon
Full moon in Scorpio
May Day
Beltane

My Wish for You

May your fears melt away.

May your heart rise up to meet what has been hidden in the depths of your Being.

Let the Healing and Transformation begin.

Let your passion burn but be firm and deliberate.

Ground yourself in Earth and Fire to know that you are strong enough to make this passage.

You are worthy but you must choose yourself.

Allow the Transformation.

Speak your Truth.

Only those who are chosen and who can truly choose themselves will meet the new Earth coming forth.

Blessings.



04/29/2026

Decide on division of labor ahead of time. Who is in charge of what chore?

04/29/2026

In the grand scheme of life, is it that Big of a problem?

Let's talk about the dishwasher....

Let the person do how they do it if they're going to do it.


04/28/2026

Be present moment focused.

I'm a reforming muti-tasker.
It is researched and documented that we can't process 2 channels of information at the same time. What we're doing is switching back and forth between two rapidly. We're missing pieces.

゚viralシ

04/28/2026

Eye Contact

If you want to communicate something, get the other person's eye contact.

04/28/2026

Present Moment

We are most powerful for our focus and strength if we are grounded in the present moment.

There is a beauty in sitting together in the silence.
04/25/2026

There is a beauty in sitting together in the silence.

Photographic reflections on Arbor Day.
04/25/2026

Photographic reflections on Arbor Day.

04/23/2026

Trauma

This word is over used and often done so casually.

According to the DSM V, trauma requires exposure to actual or threatened death, serious injury or sexual violence.

04/20/2026

Some ways to handle anger in a relationship.

It's been researched and documented that once we reach a certain level of arousal, we can't process any new information.

Use this in your communication when things are angry and tense.

Sometimes it is most helpful to take a temporary break in discussions.

It 's important to indicate how long of a time it will be for the break and when the return discussion will be.

Often one partner wants to distance with conflict, and another partner wants to solve the conflict immediately.

So when partners are taking a time out, it's important to think on what could each person have done differently. It's generally not helpful to review how you think the other person was wrong and how you were right.

What could you do differently?

04/20/2026

Use your words in a disagreement.

Don't expect someone to read your mind.

Don't imagine that you're going to show someone in behavior how you feel.
For example, don't throw a tantrum. don't patch out of the driveway, don't slam doors, don't give someone the silent treatment.

Remember, you're on the same team. Use your words. You can communicate that you're angry, or disappointed, or whatever. State how you feel such also communicating that you want to stay close. You want stay connected.as opposed to behaving in a rejecting manner.

Use your words.

04/20/2026

We communicate based on what we've experienced.

Some ways are good, some not so much.

When we learn that there is a better way, we are responsible to change our patterns to become a wiser kinder human.

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Dr. Laura L. Pauly, Ph. D. , Inner Resources, Inc. , 740 Pilgrim Parkway 100C
Elm Grove, WI
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