03/16/2026
Happy Sunday from sunny San Diego ☀️
This morning, I was sitting on the beach, watching the sun's rays dance across the water's surface.
I felt grateful for the peace in that moment, and I also reflected on how life has its ups and downs... its ebbs and flows...
As I approach my 51st birthday 😳, I still feel like the 12-year-old with wide eyes, curiosity, and a sense of wonder about the world.
What I love about this stage of life is that life experience brings a certain wisdom and perspective.
I have a deeper appreciation for adversity and struggles as I seek to understand what they are here to show me — and to trust that there is something meaningful waiting on the other side of the pain.
I believe this is why it’s important not to get stuck in fear of pain.
Pain can be a wise teacher if we allow it.
When we open our hearts fully to life, the ten thousand joys and sorrows become available as part of this precious human experience.
It all belongs, and I am here for all of it 💛
I love what Thich Nhat Hanh says:
“Whether this moment is happy or not depends on you. It’s you who makes the moment happy, not the moment that makes you happy. With mindfulness, concentration, and insight, any moment can become a happy moment.”
I also wanted to let you know that if you happen to be here in San Diego and feel called to slow down a little, reconnect with your body, and give your nervous system some care, I’m offering a small therapeutic yoga class for stress and trauma recovery at my Hillcrest studio.
It’s a gentle, trauma-informed space where we practice simple movement, breathing, and mindfulness to help the body settle and return to a sense of safety and regulation.
If your nervous system has been carrying a lot lately, this might be a supportive place to pause, reset, and reconnect.
You can learn more here: https://www.paulakettulalcsw.com/The-Stress-Response-Reset
May you all be happy and well 🙏
P.S. I’d love to hear how life is unfolding for you 🙏
What season of life are you in these days?