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10/27/2025

Underneath their fears, men want to be better than they are. It takes wisdom to inspire them.


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||  Yogic Secrets of the Dark Goddess  || Ma Kali gently tended the coals of my inner fires, stirring the flames of Agni...
10/12/2025

|| Yogic Secrets of the Dark Goddess ||

Ma Kali gently tended the coals of my inner fires, stirring the flames of Agni to manifest every magical colour, permeating the very spanda or creative pulsation resonating throughout my being. At an innermost level, Agni is the fire of consciousness, Chidagni, the awareness of the supreme Brahman, the ultimate Existence in itself. Chidjyoti, the ‘light of consciousness', is the power behind the mind that illumines both sensory objects and our thought patterns, bathing them in the beauty of its eternal radiance.

The universe weaves a divine tapestry of light and energy, which has been tapped by our ancient Rishis and by Native Guides all over the world resonating with nature's beatitude. The Seers perceived the subtle vibrations, the ‘aliveness' of light, pervading the Tanmatras or root essences of sight, sound, taste, touch or smell, as well as the inner intuitive perception of one's sixth sense of Being. Our mergence into the all pervasive light allows us to experience a pure state of illumination inside and outside, ushering us through the gateway of higher consciousness.

Shakti prevails on all levels, from supreme Brahman to the minutest living organism. Every light form has its own shakti, from the rays of the Sun to the luminescence of Moonlight. Brahma Shakti is chit shakti, the power of consciousness existing as one with the Shiva principle. Ishvara as the cosmic world is the power or will of God to transform and nourish every living being. All the forces of nature represent Shakti, unfolding the goddesses lila or play. Durga's light protects and encircles us with her divine power. Kali is the pulsating, stimulating relentless energy.

As the spirit of fire, Agni personifies Jyoti or light as perception. The gift of sight is the power of fire, as seeing is our way of cognizing light. The clarity of seeing discloses the essence of everything that we observe. Kali is Charunetra, the ‘Devi with beautiful eyes', viewing the entire cosmic play through her fire of consciousness. She destroys all illusion in her role as Bhrama-nasini, ‘the one who destroys all confusion', embodying the three states of Creation- Preservation -Destruction as Brahma, Vishnu and Shiva.

At the altar of sacrifice Kali is Agni, echoing its brilliance, hissing its fiery magic yet tending the warmth of its dying embers. Fire is a sacrifice unto itself, a sense of mysticism shrouding its powers. At the fire altar is placed our own sacrifice of both inner and outer natures, holding a deep reverence in its sacrificial act.

Cultivating the fire of awareness on every level enables one to experience sheer Ananda or bliss. In the inner Yoga, Agni reflects the fiery Kundalini force dwelling in the Muladhara holding all deeper earth-like qualities. This ‘root fire' expresses the power of our aspirations, rising from below and ascending heavenwards.

Our inner fires must be tended to with great care and a gentle fanning, to keep their forces moving throughout our being. One must prepare the ground for the fire's magnificent ascent through the body, mind and soul. There are no shortcuts to higher revelations. The search for the illumining light must begin within oneself. These inner stirrings manifest when we quieten all exterior noise, silencing all worldly distraction.

When guidance flows from the heart, its purity vanquishes the perturbed questionings of a doubting mind. The loving flow of trust in the heart's capacity to manifest higher thoughts will create the space for sattvic or pure aspiration. The gentle calming of the soul will awaken an inner intelligence, guiding the mind to read the subtle nuances of the soul.


Kali opens the doors to the spiritual heart with her blessings. She represents the highest flame of the fire which takes us from the depths of our being to the most secret chambers of the heart. Hers is the kindling power which ignites the fire to traverse its fiery path, seeking out the blue flame within the spiritual heart.

Hridaya, the spiritual heart, is the creative, unique home of the all-consuming Agni in its purest nature. The tiny flame of the supreme Agni rests in the womb of the heart. The heart carries the strains of the entire universe as the ultimate abode of both the Devatas and the soul. Goddess Kali resides in our hridaya, manifesting all time, space, aspirations and experiences.

This tiny etheric space perceived within the heart through sadhana is called Hridayaksha, the ‘heart space' or ‘dahara akasha', ‘the small space'. Ma Kali sits enthroned in this diminutive space within the heart in the inextinguishable flame of Agni. The vision of the universe within it is the eternal Soma offering of endless joy! Kali's grace unfolds as Siddhida, ‘the giver of siddhis', higher powers and mystic renderings.

Agni is represented by an upward facing triangle, indicating the striving of the soul's aspirations to higher truths. Familiarising myself with life's journey, yoked by my sadhana I learned to nurture the fierceness of Agni, sustaining its fiery flame of concentration, awareness, perception, and insight.

Kali's triangular form of Agni was realised through meditation, its varying hues and tempestuous heat purifying my lower energies through burning their samskaras, the ‘subtle impressions of my past actions'. As an upward pointing triangle one seeks her power of speech, the very tongue of the Goddess, the tongue of fire! As a downward pointing triangle, one experiences her flow of grace, through the womb of immortality!

The ageless silence of the ancient Himalayas oriented my mind to a gentle flow of Self-inquiry, bringing in its wake a deeper current of inner grace. Waves of Bhakti Yoga or sheer devotion filled my being with a sweet Soma, the divine nectar. Surrender to the Divine consecrated my life with a surge of blessings, guiding me to experience the ecstasy of their spiritual delight.

As Rakta Kali, her currents of blood (rakta) flow through everything. Seeking the flow of blood comprises her deeper nature. There is nothing through which her powerful currents do not course; yet her aim is not to consume our blood but to direct its course back to our soul, of which she is the mother. It is the very blood of life that she brings to us, the prana or cosmic life force supporting the most primal will of all life - to live forever.

The flow of the life force through Kali's grace awakens the Shakti, her electrical power, providing us a relentless spiritual energy for our sadhana. Ma Kali's Kriya Shakti, her power of yogic transformation, guides us through all the impediments of illusion, karma and our limited mindset. Her vibrant energies release a lightning force like a sword, cutting through all negativity, clearing the path for the ascension of the Kundalini fire.

The fine edge of Kali's sword energizes the celestial weapons of the Devatas, the sadhana of the Yogin and the Prana of all life. Her sword is not one of negation; it allows us to envision a reversal, revealing the beauty of eternity cutting through each transient moment. It strikes at the inertia of ignorance and death in order to release the light within us. Kali's dynamism fans the flame of Chidagni within the precincts of the spiritual heart, allowing its fire to raise our vibrational levels, creating a sacred space for the blossoming of all our sacred lotuses.

The Dark Goddess graced me with an innate proficiency in using the fiery inner flame, raising my energy to higher planes, charring the debilitating vulnerability of body and mind, dissolving the shadows of darkness into the luminescence of Her spiritual love and Light.

By Shambhavi Chopara

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09/14/2025

Here’s an important 40 minute transmission which I like to call our evening workshop tonight. So create a sacred ambience and relax as you receive these insights.

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♥️A woman is not something to be understood—she is something to be felt. She is not just a body; she is an entire univer...
09/10/2025

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A woman is not something to be understood—she is something to be felt. She is not just a body; she is an entire universe wrapped in human form. She is the doorway through which life itself enters this world. She is creation, destruction, and rebirth. She is the mystery that even time bows down to.

I know woman. I know her being, her anatomy, her spirit. It is only because of the blessings of the Divine Mother that I carry this knowing. Through me, you are not just going to meet me—you are going to meet yourself.

A woman is not just physical; she is a melody, a song flowing through creation. She is the dance of the Divine in human form. She is rhythm itself, the heartbeat of life, the blessing of God woven into flesh and breath.

She is the fragrance of love, the softness of compassion, and the fire of truth. She is the silence of prayer and the roar of creation. Her essence cannot be contained—it spills into the world as nurture, intuition, and strength.

But trauma has made her forget who she is. The wounds of generations, the weight of silence, and the chains of fear have veiled her truth. She begins to believe she is only a body, forgetting she is also the soul that animates it.

She is not just a woman; she is Shakti, the divine force that keeps the universe alive. She holds the power of creation in her womb, the wisdom of ages in her heart, and the resilience of mountains in her spirit.

Her eyes carry galaxies, her smile holds healing, and her tears cleanse the earth. She is not weak when she cries—her tears are rivers that wash away pain, making space for renewal.

When she loves, she does not just give affection; she births new worlds of possibility. When she walks into a room, she shifts energy, for the Divine walks with her. She is never ordinary—every woman is extraordinary.

Yet society has told her to shrink, to be small, to silence her voice. Trauma has stolen her mirror, so she cannot see her reflection. But when she remembers, when she awakens, the world trembles with her power.

She is the first teacher, the first healer, the first home. Every child has known her warmth before they knew words. Every human carries her imprint in their heartbeat. She is eternal, even when forgotten.

Her softness is not weakness—it is her greatest strength. Her gentleness is not submission—it is the power to transform anger into peace. She can build, she can nurture, and she can destroy when necessary, for she is the embodiment of balance.

The woman is not a fragment of creation—she is the essence of creation itself. She does not only belong to man, family, or society; she belongs to the Divine, and through the Divine, to herself.

When she heals her trauma, she reclaims her throne. When she forgives herself, she becomes limitless. When she remembers her divinity, she becomes unstoppable. And when she rises, she does not rise alone—she lifts the whole world with her.

When a woman decides to rise, the whole universe rises with her. When she chooses to heal, generations before and after her are healed. This is the power of her essence, the truth of her soul, and the gift of her existence.

~ Abhikesh

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The wrong man will admire your independence, not because he respects it—but because it relieves him of responsibility. H...
09/08/2025

The wrong man will admire your independence, not because he respects it—but because it relieves him of responsibility. He’ll watch you carry the weight of everything—your career, your healing, your peace, your pain—and silently expect you to keep going, because “you’ve got it.” He’ll mistake your resilience for invincibility, and slowly, without even realizing it, you’ll start doing life alone while standing next to someone who’s just present, but not truly partnered.

The right man, though?
He knows you can do it all—but he won’t let you.
Not because he doubts your strength, but because he honors it.
Because a true man doesn’t sit back and watch you burn out—he steps in. He builds with you, side by side.
He knows leadership isn’t about control—it’s about covering her, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and physically.

A real man sets the tone of safety and structure in the relationship.
He creates an atmosphere where her nervous system can finally exhale.
Where she doesn’t have to fight to be heard, to be supported, or to feel secure.
He’s consistent—not just when it’s convenient, but especially when it’s hard.
Because consistency is how she knows she can relax into her feminine.
And safety is how love truly flourishes.

In a divine partnership, strength is not found in how much you can do alone, but in how much you can build together. It’s not about being needed—it’s about being present. A woman in her power still deserves to be protected, supported, and poured into.

She shouldn’t have to ask you to show up.
She shouldn’t feel like she’s “too much” for needing masculine leadership.
She should feel safe—because the man beside her leads with love, not ego.

~Conscious Souls

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 What is a man? QUIZ:Finish each sentence with the same 3 words:1. A man’s honor_  2. The basis of trust _  3. The me...
08/31/2025

 What is a man? 
QUIZ:
Finish each sentence with the same 3 words:
1. A man’s honor_
2. The basis of trust _
3. The measure of integrity_
4. A man’s legacy _
5. The essence of a man _
6. A man’s reputation_
7. A man’s best asset _
8. A man’s strength _
9. A man’s dignity _
10. The reflection of a man _

If you want to change the world, love a man.I mean really love him. Choose the one whose soul calls to yours with clarit...
08/26/2025

If you want to change the world, love a man.

I mean really love him. Choose the one whose soul calls to yours with clarity, the one who trembles before the immensity of love yet still chooses it, the one who is brave enough to be afraid. Take his hand and draw him into the river of your heart. Let him rest in its current, let him lay down the weight of centuries in your warmth. Let his heavy burden catch fire in your flame and burn into ash, so that from that ash he may rise again.

When you look into his eyes, look past the surface of today. See the boy who longed for safety, the man who fought to become himself, the father, the grandfather, and the ancient bloodline behind him. See the forgotten wars, the silent grief, the unspoken madness still echoing through his body. Know that he carries it all, often without knowing its name.

Look upon his pain, his shame, his unhealed torment without judgment. Offer him your steadiness, your sanctuary, so that he may finally surrender it. Feel the pulse of his ancestral burden, and understand that what he seeks is not perfection but a refuge deep enough to dissolve his rage into tenderness.

Let your gaze tell him he is not alone. Let your womb, the sacred gateway of renewal, wash through his scars and awaken the memory that love is older than war, and softer than fear. Love him like that, and you will not only heal him, you will heal generations.

Reposted from Kelly Graver

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