03/06/2026
Helping Children Process Tragedy in Our Community
Our community is grieving the loss of a beloved teacher whose life was taken through domestic violence. Many children knew her personally, and even those who did not may still feel confused, sad, or frightened when they hear about such a tragedy. As parents and caregivers, you may be wondering how to talk with your children about what has happened.
Children look to the adults around them to understand how safe their world is. One of the most important things you can do is create a calm and supportive space where your child can ask questions and share feelings.
Here are a few helpful guidelines when talking with your child:
• Start by asking what they already know. Children often hear bits and pieces from friends or social media. Clarifying what they understand helps you correct misinformation.
• Use simple, honest language. You do not have to share every detail. It is enough to acknowledge that something very sad and serious happened.
• Reassure them about safety. Children may worry that the same thing could happen to someone in their own family. Let them know that adults work hard to keep families and schools safe.
• Allow emotions. Your child may feel sad, scared, confused, or even seem unaffected. All reactions are normal.
• Limit exposure to graphic information. News coverage and online discussions can be overwhelming for children.
• Keep routines as normal as possible. Predictable schedules help children feel secure during uncertain times.
It is also important to remember that tragedies like this can open conversations about healthy relationships, respect, and seeking help when someone feels unsafe.
If your child shows signs of distress such as sleep problems, increased anxiety, withdrawal, or ongoing sadness, professional support can help.
Our hearts are with the family, students, and staff who are grieving this tremendous loss.
— ATS Counseling Services
