11/29/2025
A sense of urgency is a pillar of white supremacy, and has NO place in healing.
Unfortunately we live in a culture where we constantly feel like we are in a rush, and being late is seen as disrespectful.
I know it’s much more complex than that. Especially if you’re a new parent, or if you’re navigating the time warp that accompanies grief.
My official policy:
If you’re 5 mins early or 5 mins late, you’re on time.
If I don’t see you after 5 mins, I give you a courtesy call to see if you’re on your way.
If you are - great. See you soon.
If you forgot or you’re far away, we reschedule you as soon as we can (sometimes same day).
If you really can’t make it and can’t reschedule, there is a 50% missed appointment fee. No shame. Just me protecting my time and energy.
Any questions?
It’s 2025. Be the change you want to see.