01/21/2026
Gratitude is a ⭐️ value ⭐️.
Comfort is a ⭐️ nervous system state ⭐️.
They are not the same thing.
And they can absolutely coexist.
You can be deeply grateful AND wildly uncomfortable at the same time.
If your body tenses, freezes, flushes, dissociates, fidgets, or wants to escape - that does NOT mean you’re ungrateful.
It means your nervous system is talking to you.
And loves…
DO NOT MINIMIZE THAT!
Your intuition is not some mystical personality trait.
It’s your nervous system screaming information in real time about:
🧠 safety
🧠 consent
🧠 capacity
🧠 boundaries
Somewhere along the way, a lot of us were taught: “if you’re uncomfortable, you should be grateful instead.”
No.
That’s how people stay stuck, frozen, silent, and self-abandoning.
Nothing is “wrong” with you for feeling discomfort in “good” situations.
You are not dramatic.
You are not ungrateful.
You are ALLOWED to feel discomfort, even when others don’t.
Do not let anyone shame- absolutely anyone - shame you out of that in the name of gratitude.
If this hit, tell me:
✨ Where have you been overriding your body lately?
I’ll go first with something silly and simple but maybe relatable: I feel SO uncomfortable when people sing me happy birthday 🎂. And it’s not that I hate attention (see my last reel 💪) I just don’t know how to react, or how to sit still and receive like that.
But also please don’t stop celebrating me! I’m grateful for all of you.😂 ♥️ 💕 🎂