07/28/2025
According to the U.S. Census Bureau, nearly 1 in 4 children now live without a biological, step, or adoptive father in the home. And even in intact families, emotional disconnection is on the rise.
We are living in a time where distractions are abundant, and connection is rare, but it doesn’t have to stay that way. Seeking support, education, and community isn’t a sign of failure...it’s a sign of wisdom and strength.
- A father’s eyes brimmed with tears. A man who fiercely loves his children yet couldn't understand why they didn’t respect him. He was present...an incredible provider and protector...but despite all of that, the connection with his kid's lacked depth.
The love was there. That much was clear. But the relationships were strained, falling apart really, and it was breaking his heart.
He didn’t feel respected.
They didn’t feel important.
At home, the atmosphere had grown tense. Everyone retreated to their devices, bickering had become the norm, and when it came time for Dad to step in and correct behavior, he was met with eye rolls, resistance, and contempt.
The power struggle had begun.
Frustration overwhelmed him. His attempts to lead were met with opposition, and in moments of feeling disrespected, his own emotions took control. The cycle was becoming volatile, with no one really winning...only hurting.
So much confusion and pain.
He believed that being their dad automatically meant they should respect him.
Respect isn’t automatically given because of a title. It’s built through consistent connection, safe communication, and a parent’s willingness to lead with empathy and integrity.
Respect cannot be demanded; it must be cultivated.
Here’s the truth: without genuine connection, correction feels like rejection.
When children hear from us in moments of discipline more than anything else, they begin to believe:
"I’m only noticed when I’m in trouble."
That mindset creates a desperate pursuit of attention, often through negative behavior, because it’s the only way they know how to get it.
Connection is not a luxury.
It’s a necessity.
A secure, emotionally attuned bond with your children is the foundation for healthy discipline, mutual respect, and lifelong relationship.
However, It’s never too late to course-correct, to change patterns, and to learn how to truly connect with your children, beyond the surface.
This isn’t about perfection. It’s about intentional presence...and healing begins with connection.
Unfortunately, this story is becoming more and more common. Today’s parents are stretched thin by economic pressure, the constant presence of screens, and a lack of access to clear, effective guidance on emotional connection and communication within families.
If you're struggling to connect with your children, you are not alone. Let's create your path forward.
From Amanda
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