06/28/2025
You can’t use sport psychology to take short cuts with your mental prep.
Plastering over the thoughts and feelings you don’t like with things that you wish you thought or felt isn’t going to hold up to the robust force of performance nerves.
Let yourself be nervous and instead figure out how to make up for the ways in which your performance nerves change your riding. That’s something you can control - nerves, not so much.
If you get too aggressive with your horse or too impulsive in your decision-making when nervous, focus on the things you can control that will help you to ride with more finesse, more diplomacy, more tact.
If you become indecisive, spacey, or worry so much about making mistakes that you stop riding, focus on the things you can control that will help you to ride with more decisiveness, more assertiveness, more margin for error, even more pace.