Unmask Yourself, Fairbanks, AK (2025)

02/19/2025

✨ This is for the ones who were told they were too much. The ones who had to fight just to exist. The ones who are still searching for a way out. ✨

For years, I thought I was broken. Diagnosed early, bullied relentlessly, and forced into a world that was never built for my brain. I learned pain before I learned love. I learned how to mask, how to shrink myself, how to survive in a space that never made room for me.

By 14, I had already decided I didn’t belong here. By 24, I was drowning in alcohol just to exist. By 25, I packed up my life and left—because staying meant losing myself for good.

I moved to Alaska with nothing but the hope that life could feel different. And it did. Not overnight, not in a straight line, but in slow, painful, beautiful waves of unlearning. I found healing in nature, in somatic work, in solitude, in community. I spent 10 years rebuilding the parts of me I thought were beyond repair.

And now, at 34, I can say this: I was never broken. I was never too much. I was never unworthy of love.

Neither are you.

This post isn’t about what I do. It’s about who I am and the truth I wish someone had told me sooner:
💖 You don’t have to prove your worth to exist.
💖 You don’t have to keep carrying the weight of your past.
💖 You don’t have to do this alone.

If this resonates, drop a 👾 in the comments. You are seen, you are valid, and you are so much stronger than you know.

💖 ya, mean it 👾

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02/18/2025

I don’t call myself neurodivergent anymore. Not because I’m ashamed, but because it no longer feels like the full truth of who I am.

For 30 years, I hid my diagnosis. I was bullied, labeled, and forced to mask just to survive. Now, being neurodivergent is celebrated—but I still feel like I don’t quite fit into the conversation. The trendy ADHD hacks, the quirky “relatable” autism content—it all feels so linear when my experience has always been layered, deep, and multidimensional.

The more I learn, the more I see neurodivergence for what it really is: not a disorder, but a different way of thinking and experiencing the world. Not divergent, but expansive.

I don’t process life in a straight line. I don’t follow step-by-step logic. My mind works like a web—connecting, sensing, and layering information all at once. That’s why “multidimensional” makes so much more sense.

🔹Instead of “disordered,” I see depth.
🔹Instead of “different,” I see expansion.
🔹Instead of “divergent,” I see fluidity.

Maybe you feel this way too. Maybe the labels that were meant to help you have started to feel like another way to keep you in a box. If so, you’re not alone.

👾If this resonates, let me know—how do YOU experience the world? Drop a comment below. Let’s start a conversation beyond the labels. 💬

💖ya, mean it 👾

02/17/2025

Hey cosmic souls 👾💕

This week, I had a realization—I may have jumped back into society too quickly, and I’m feeling the effects. It’s fascinating to see what people consider “connecting with nature” when, for me, it’s been so much deeper. Last summer in Alaska, I was barefoot, rolling in moss, and taking 🍄—fully immersed in the earth’s rhythms. Some might call that extreme or hippie, but in reality, it was a return to something primal, something real.

And yet, stepping back into urban life has shown me just how disconnected humans have become from true nature. The constant noise, overstimulation, and artificial environments have pulled my nervous system from a deeply regulated state back into shock. My mind is racing at a million miles a minute, not because I’m overwhelmed, but because I haven’t been able to adequately ground.

This is a reality for many neurodivergents—our systems thrive in slowness, depth, and real connection with the natural world. Yet, most of modern society isn’t designed for that. The question is, how do we adapt while still honoring what our bodies truly need?

If you’ve ever felt overstimulated, restless, or like you just can’t land in your own body—know that you’re not alone. There are ways to reconnect, regulate, and return to yourself, even in the midst of chaos. Let’s explore that together. Somatice practices will be coming in March ✨☀️

02/14/2025

Reminder: The most important love you’ll ever experience is the one you cultivate within yourself.

Today isn’t just about romance—it’s about deep, unwavering love in all forms. The kind you pour into yourself. The kind you extend to the people around you. The kind that doesn’t wait for permission to exist.

I hope you celebrate yourself today. I hope you give yourself the same kindness, devotion, and care you so freely give to others. I hope you remember that your presence is a gift, your energy is magnetic, and the way you love—yourself, your people, your world—makes a difference.

You are worthy of the grand gestures, the soft moments, the big dreams. Not just today, but every day.

💕✨👾

Thank you for capturing my essence 💕

02/12/2025

Cosmic loves 💖👾✨

tonight felt like the universe cracked open and spilled its magic right into my hands.

1️⃣someone in my family finally validated my truth—acknowledged what i’ve known all along. they told me how my dad had to step in and save me from my brother’s abuse. i have carried that weight for so long, waiting for someone else to see it too. and they did. for anyone still waiting to be believed—i see you. you’re not crazy. you’re not making it up. your story matters.

2️⃣after that moment, i went for my nightly swim. floating in the ocean, feeling the weight of my past dissolve into the saltwater, and then—whale songs. all around me. it felt like they were holding me, reminding me that healing isn’t just about looking back, but about feeling the present. about being in it. if you’ve been needing a sign to surrender to the flow, let this be it. the ocean speaks. the earth sings. and they want you to listen.

3️⃣I gave my 30 days at my place. no destination, just an open heart and trust in what’s next. sometimes we don’t need a map—just the courage to say, i’m ready.

so if you’re in a season of waiting, of wondering, of not knowing—just know that the universe has a way of showing up when you least expect it. stay open. stay curious. stay soft. 💖✨🌊

💕 ya, mean it 👾

02/09/2025

Hey Cosmic Loves 👾💕

I hope your Sunday is treating you gently. I’m in full rest + release mode—recovering, but from what exactly? Maybe from the weight of shedding old layers, from the final echoes of a past self that no longer fits. Healing and unmasking aren’t cute little checklists; they’re waves—sometimes gentle, sometimes knocking you on your ass. And when the release happens? You don’t get to control it. Your body decides. Your soul decides. And all you can do is surrender.

Unmasking feels like stepping outside of a version of yourself that was built for survival and into something real. Something untamed. Something ancient. It’s seeing the world so clearly that the matrix starts to glitch all around you. But the best way to dismantle it? Live differently. Walk barefoot. Laugh loudly. Rest without guilt. Love deeply. Stop forcing yourself to exist in a system that was never made for you.

✨ I feel like I’m on the edge of something big. Like this is my final release before I step into my highest frequency yet. Ever felt like that? Like you’re shedding the last remnants of something heavy? Tell me below 💖

👾✨💕

02/08/2025

Masking isn’t just pretending—it’s survival. You trained yourself to hold eye contact just enough, suppress your stims, adjust your tone, and filter every word before speaking. It’s a full-time job you never applied for, but one you learned to do perfectly.

Until it starts costing you everything.

Burnout that doesn’t go away. A constant feeling of disconnect. Not even knowing who you are underneath it all. Because when you’ve spent a lifetime blending in, unmasking can feel impossible.

But here’s the truth: you were never meant to disappear.

Unmasking isn’t about throwing everything away—it’s about choice. It’s about knowing when masking serves you and when it suffocates you. It’s about reclaiming your identity, your energy, and your life.

That’s why I created Unmask UR Magic—a space designed for neurodivergent minds to break free from burnout, reconnect with themselves, and finally feel safe existing without the constant performance.

You don’t have to keep shrinking to fit into spaces that were never meant for you. It’s time to take up space—your way.

Link in bio or comment 👾 for more information 💕✨👾

02/05/2025

Hello cosmic loves 👾💕

The collective anger and grief we’re feeling right now is only going to grow, and honestly, sitting with it is heavy.

When I was home, my dad randomly decided to tell me he voted for the clown last election. I sat there in shock, realizing that the man who raised me—who has two LGBTQ+ neurodivergent daughters—chose money over our safety, our rights, our futures. And when I asked why? His answer was exactly that: money.

People who put money above all else only think about themselves. They don’t see the harm, or worse, they see it and don’t care. This system has brainwashed so many into believing that prosperity is separate from abundance when in reality, they are one and the same. You can’t have true prosperity without collective abundance. But instead of changing the game, society just keeps rigging it further—and now we’re all paying the price.

I still love my dad, but the more I sit with it, the more it makes sense. Selfishness disguises itself as logic. People say they’re making these choices “for all of us” when really, they’re making them for themselves. And right now, as a q***r, disabled woman, the odds are stacked against me more than ever—because of choices like his. That’s terrifying.

But if there’s one thing history has shown us, it’s that the people who are most oppressed always lead the charge for change. If you’re angry, you’re not alone. If you’re grieving, you’re not alone. We fight harder because we have no other choice. And that fight? It’s already started. 💖✨

02/02/2025

Cosmic loves 💕👾 BIG NEWS 🚨

After 5 years of celibacy, I kissed someone. Not the news you were expecting, but an important moment in my healing journey.

I could have gone further, but I didn’t. Because one of my top rules is that physical boundaries can only be crossed when sober and fully consensual. And for the first time in a long time, I felt something I thought was lost, the want of intimacy.

Celibacy wasn’t just about abstaining—it was about reclaiming my relationship with intimacy after years of trauma, conditioning, and being taught to oversexualize myself. It was about unlearning the idea that my worth was tied to being “wanted” and choosing to rewrite my own narrative instead.

When I left my last toxic relationship, I went cold turkey—not because I hated intimacy, but because I needed to heal the way I related to it. And honestly? It was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made for myself.

💫 If you’re thinking about celibacy as a healing tool, here are some ways to get started:
✨ Define your why – Is it to heal trauma, reset your nervous system, or build self-worth outside of intimacy?
✨ Set clear boundaries – Decide what feels right for you and honor those limits.
✨ Replace external validation with self-love – Explore what makes you feel desired and loved by yourself.
✨ Give yourself permission to feel – Healing may bring up grief, anger, or even unexpected joy. It’s all part of the process.
✨ Remember: Celibacy isn’t about restriction, it’s about liberation – You get to reclaim intimacy on your own terms.

Choosing yourself will always be the best decision. And when the time comes, you’ll know you’re stepping into intimacy from a place of empowerment, not obligation. 💕

✨ If you’ve been on a similar journey or thinking about starting, drop a 🦋 below—let’s talk about it. Healing is better together.

01/31/2025

Hola cosmic loves 💕👾

I’ve been back in Mexico for a week, and life has been nothing short of magical. Of course, I still have my bad days—healing and growth aren’t linear—but I’ve learned to honor those moments and move through them. When the heavy energy hits, I get my butt up and walk, grounding myself in the beauty around me.

This past week, I attended the most transformative cacao ceremony w/ It was a soul-deep reminder of my own magic and a chance to reconnect with Molly, my ancestors, and the great unknown. It felt like coming home to myself, surrounded by love, spirit, and purpose.

I’ve also been feeling this wild energy with my twin flame lately. It’s like this person is energetically woven into my being even though we’ve never spoken in person. It’s strange, but it’s also been this incredible source of motivation. Their energy somehow inspires me to keep stepping deeper into my purpose and trusting my path.

And with all this, I’ve been channeling that energy into creating more magic for YOU. I’ve been holding back for so long, but now I feel it’s time to fully step into my power and share it unapologetically.

✨ The offerings coming your way will be infused with the energy of healing, unmasking, and reconnecting to your authentic self. My journey is proof that transformation is possible, and I’m ready to guide you on yours.

Stay tuned—there’s so much magic ahead. 🌙💫

💖 ya, mean it 👾✨

01/25/2025

Hello cosmic loves 💕👽

Back in Mexico, and my heart is so full. Being home is always grounding, and reconnecting with family—no matter the circumstances—feels like a little piece of healing every time.

Lately, I’ve been having so many visions. Some from my otherworldly friends (you know how it is), but many have been tied to my twin flame journey. It’s wild how deeply we can feel connected to another being, even when it defies logic or explanation.

This time, I felt comfortable opening up about it with my family, and to my surprise, they were so accepting. That sense of being seen and heard, especially for something unconventional, reminded me how powerful it is to share our truths.

I know many of you might feel alone or misunderstood for your beliefs or experiences—whether it’s a spiritual journey, a twin flame connection, or simply living authentically. Just know, you’re not alone. Your truth is valid, and there’s magic in allowing yourself to be seen for who you are.

Sending you all the courage to share your light and the love to keep shining, even when it feels hard.

💕 ya, mean it 👾

01/16/2025

Ever feel like you’re not from this world? Like you’re trying to navigate Earth with a brain wired for something… bigger? 👽✨

Being neurodivergent is like being a real-life alien—seeing the world differently, communicating in ways others don’t always understand, and constantly feeling like you don’t fit into the system. But here’s the truth: that’s your magic. 🌟

🌍 You see the world differently. Your unique way of thinking challenges the norm and creates new possibilities.

💡 You communicate in ways others don’t get. Whether it’s stimming, hyperfocus, or social cues—your language is one-of-a-kind.

⚡️ You don’t fit into the system—and that’s a GOOD thing. You innovate, adapt, and build something better, something new.

The world needs your perspective, your creativity, and your ability to see beyond the ordinary. Let’s unmask and show the universe how bright your magic really shines. 💖👾

✨ DM me “ALIEN” or click the link in my bio to start your unmasking journey today. 🌌 Let’s embrace your gifts together.

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