
09/13/2025
Shoutout to all the non-autistic people who make sincere efforts to listen and learn autistic people's perspectives, just as a matter of principle, despite society not really expecting them to.
(And to pre-empt a few comments: yes, a small percentage of autistic people do in fact lack empathy. But I'd be willing to bet money on that figure being close to the percentage of NON-autistic people who lack empathy. Not that this is a contest. 😉)
Chris Bonnello - Autistic Author
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[Title: The Double Empathy Problem illustrated
First panel: Red stick-figure looking at blue stick-figure: "This autistic person struggles with empathy, because they can't tell how I'm feeling."
Second panel, a few minutes later: Red stick-figure looking at dysregulated blue stick-figure: "I don't get it - they're melting down over nothing!"
Caption: Autistic people do NOT generally lack empathy. But autistic and non-autistic people communicate differently, which means everyone needs to do the kind of learning, listening and 'translating' that's currently only expected of autistic people.]