01/12/2026
Raising kids in a mental health crisis means our energy is not infinite—it’s sacred. How do you know when to lean all the way in to catch them, or when to step back and let them “skin their knee?” This decision isn’t always straightforward. Parents are constantly being told we are hovering too much, and then just as quickly, that we are not doing enough.
My take: take each challenge as it comes. Talk it out with your child, your partner, and also with yourself, focusing on your values. Learn to interpret which challenges are the kind your child can soak up new experiences to learn from, and which ones need a helping hand from the start.
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