04/25/2026
The congress was incredible.
I got to meet some of the most famous and distinguished s*xual medicine doctors and PFS/PSSD/PAS researchers in the world and rub elbows with them, it was awesome. They were also the kindest and most receptive people to me. I've never had such an experience before in my whole life as a clinician. I am always the iconoclast, the black sheep, some "quack" they dismiss without even hearing what I have to say.
I was very concerned that when I dropped my theory and showed all my evidence, a lot of these people wouldn't be receptive to it as there's hundreds of PFS "theories" and what's one more from some random family doctor in Detroit right?
Well, as it would turn out, all these doctors and researchers had many things to present, new findings, new research.
Without getting too into the weeds, their research findings basically plugged into my theory like a puzzle piece one after the other. it was almost hilarious to see it happen, where each person's discoveries in the field neatly aligned with "yep, if that's true, then X should happen, it does? awesome!"
I got to speak for almost 2 hours, and showed them the biochemistry, the pharmacology, and the unique genetic mutations that make someone's androgen metabolism system fragile, such that adding finasteride is like pulling out that one critical structural support beam in a jenga tower and it crashes.
When I was done, people were pretty stunned, but in many ways, also validated. These researchers have spent almost 20 years figuring out the weirdest quirks of this disease, and the strange things it does to a human body. It was from their published findings, particularly the findings of Dr. Mohit Khera and Dr. Melcangi and "The Drs. Silvias" (coincidentally both of his main research team members are both named Silvia!) that I began to construct my theory on how PFS has to work and why it happens. Any theory has to match with the experimentally derived factual findings. When I really put my brain to this awhile back, I started constructing possible theories, but every single one used their research as the foundation of the theory, as what they published is simply factually true.
For example, while many PFS sufferers experience what appears to be androgenic signal loss, Dr. Khera published and proved the Androgen receptors in PFS patients are upregulated about 1.7x over normal. It has always been strange that these people have upregulated AR expression but weak AR signaling. My theory explains why. Intracellular crowding of weak metabolites acts to effectively block good androgenic molecules from binding, resulting in weakening of androgenic signal, and the body responds by doing all it can, which is to upregulate AR expression (but it can only do that so much, and not enough to overcome a metabolite load many orders of magnitude greater than a 1.7x increase in AR receptor expression.
I have been asked to do some published research and possibly some trials with multiple different research teams as my theory conveniently explains why they have found what they have found experimentally, and they'd like to push it further. It is our intent to put this theory to test immediately. A publication will be made as a result of everything discussed at the conference as well, and submitted for publication ASAP.
I'm still sort of blown away by all this. I'm so used to being dismissed and derided that these people not only welcoming me in kindly, but genuinely listening to me and wanting to work with me and fit their findings into a viable model of PFS is just like....beyond my wildest dreams. I was SO sure they would dismiss me like so many have before, but they didn't...I just....i don't have words for how that felt. I've cried multiple times since i've gotten home, almost feeling like its some sort of trick. That couldn't have happened right?
I'm terrible at "diplomacy". I don't know how to write this in a way that doesn't make me come off as an overconfident dick. But for the first time in my entire medical career, I spoke to other doctors about my ideas and how the molecular biochemistry of those ideas works, and I felt heard. Not just heard ,supported, encouraged, and appreciated.
Honestly, they were thrilled. It resulted in a great deal of joy in the room, as it felt like all these separate teams now had a bridge connecting all their individual works, and all their hard work, late nights, and sacrifices they made for years and years really made a big difference. A lot of them referenced the idea of "the blind men and the elephant" where multiple blind men are touching an elephant, and describing what they feel, "A rope, a fan, a tree trunk, a thick snake, a spear!"
I think I might have been able to see those decades of that hard work, all their accomplishments, and I took all the puzzle pieces, rotated them around for awhile, and finally got them all flat on the table. I can't believe I was the guy who got to say "its an elephant".
We united as a group afterwards, and after dinner and drinks, met again this morning to develop a plan of attack. We're all focused on it as an Elephant now, and we are committed to seeing it brought to heel.
I hope to be able to say more soon, but know this, everyone left the congress feeling excited and eager, it went amazingly well.
Soon, I'll be posting a document about the various lab tests someone can do as a screening to see if they are susceptible to getting PFS. Now that we have a fairly good grasp on the "why". resources can be directed at the "what' in terms of how to defeat this thing.
I continue this work privately as well on PSSD and PAS.
I am quite convinced that I can solve them as well if I can gather enough data, see enough patients, and chip away at it just like I did PFS all these years. Please be patient with me, I swear I'm doing my best. Do not lose hope. I wont rest until we can restore you all to as healthy of a state as is humanly possible.
Thank you for everyone for your support, and to my patients for their understanding in me replying rather slowly this past week.
More updates to follow, but this is what I've got for now!