12/23/2025
You might not be attracting or manifesting the undesirable situations in your life, but you could be allowing and feeding them.
I often hear wonderful people wonder:
“Why am I attracting this into my life?”
And I wish they would shift the question to:
“How come am I allowing this into my life?” 🧐
Please consider this, that maybe JUST MAYBE, you are not “attracting” it bc that is what you deserve or bc you are a “bad” person. However, you might be allowing it bc you believe those things about yourself.
If you sit with this long enough, you might then realize that by making decisions that are aligned with your self-respect and sense of value, you have the energy to dedicate your time and resources to what is good for you and the life you want.
You aren’t broken or undeserving, you might be just acting like you are.
If you tend to look at your life through the lenses of you attracting what you deserve, take time to contemplate on this. I hope this opens a doorway for you to see different and new possibilities ahead of you.
And if you need help with that, I am here for you.
Happy Holidays, everybody!✨
👉🏽 if you want support cultivating self-esteem, self-trust and learning skills to have healthy boudaries, schedule a free consultation on my link in bio.
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Deb Ribas, LAC
Yoga Teacher & Reiki Master