07/17/2025
Hospice is not a diagnosis, it is a plan of care for the diagnosis. It is a collaboration of a team of people who come together to help guide and support those who are dying and the people who love and care for them. Hospice offers resources, supplies, and education in a way that softens one of the hardest times we will all experience.
Talking about death and dying will not make it happen sooner, neither will starting hospice.
We can’t change the outcome. If you were referred to us it is because a terminal diagnosis was given, and that is out of our control. But what is in our control is the ability to show up for you in a way that makes you feel less alone.
Please don’t wait for the last minute to start hospice if you or someone you love has received a terminal diagnosis and it has been advised by your medical team that hospice would be the next step. Traditionally, this means a timeframe of six months or less is expected, however, sometimes being on hospice can offer you a little more time and a better quality of life at the end of life.
And remember, hospice is not the boss of you. You have a voice and we want to hear it. If you are confused or upset about something, or need more or less of something, let your hospice team know so that they can do things in a way that aligns with what you need. Your voice deserves to be heard.
Our goal is to provide you with the tools and education you need to feel confident and well prepared, to remove fear and uncertainty, and to ensure that the landing is soft for the person who is about to take their very last breath. I believe that all human beings deserve that.
xo
Gabby
Hospice and palliative care nurse
End-of-life doula
Death educator
If you want to learn more about hospice, and what support and resources are available to you, you might find my “Hospice Master Class” helpful.
The next class is:
Saturday, July 26th, 10am-12pm Pacific Time
Learn more here:
https://www.thehospiceheart.net/masterclass