06/05/2024
I find some posts very thought provoking. In responding to a post of, “What you should have learned by age 40,” regarding a list, where the word family was being argued over, I had this thought I want to share with my Facebook family.
The family you create is expressing your actions in the building of a family type relationship.
The family you came from is expressing your environmental upbringing.
In this since, the family you create can also be the family you came from.
It could also be a completely different group of people that live and support each other as one would expect, or imagine, a family should be.
You can have more than one family you belong to (they claim you), or that you claim, as family.
Your past experiences initially create your current perspective.
Your current perspective creates your current reality.
Your perspective and reality are controlled by your desire to keep it or to change it. Experiences only contribute to the initial thought process.
This all is part of the victim versus creator mindset.
This post isn’t to invalidate your experiences or feelings. Those experiences and feelings are real and a part of you - good or bad.
This post is referring to your unique power and ability to control your reality (your perspectives in life) by managing your experiences and feelings.
Either mindset you choose to have, requires effort to develop and maintain.
If both were considered wolves, you choose which pack of wolves to feed (referring to the wolves story).
I think many, if not the majority, of us really have no idea how powerful we really are. (I know I often forget this.)
We can choose to allow the world to dictate who and what we are, as well as what our abilities and potential can be, or we can explore our inner world and discover who we really are - a truly powerful and amazing being.
Today, I have a request for all of my facebook friends and those I claim as family.
Regardless of your experiences throughout the day, recognize and tell yourself that you are powerful and amazing - because, in fact, you truly are.
You are loved, appreciated and accepted, just because you, are you.
You have no requirement to be loved, appreciated and accepted. For you, to believe that you are, does require your acceptance, that it’s true.
It’s is yours’ to choose.
Now go, an have an amazing day today!
(If you choose to that is, because I’m not telling you what to do. 😉)