02/02/2026
*** Due to circumstances beyond our control, the memorial service for Kay Fryman has been rescheduled to Monday, February 9, 2026, at 11:00 a.m. at St. John's Church with a reception to follow. ***
The Reverend Kay Kirby Fryman (79) of Florence, South Carolina, went peacefully into the arms of her Savior on January 27, 2026. She was surrounded by her family. She was predeceased by her parents and her beloved son, Michael Lee Ragin Jr., whose memory she carried close to her heart every day. She is survived by her loving husband, Eugene Carl Fryman; her children, Robin Kirby Ragin Hays (David) of Pawleys Island, South Carolina, Mary Kathryn Ragin Hobson (Jamie) of Columbia, South Carolina, Michelle Lea Marks (Jeremy) of Columbus, Ohio, Valerie Lynn Gieser (Doug) of Columbus, Ohio, and Olivia McKenna Fryman of Gastonia, North Carolina; her six beloved grandchildren, William Phillip Hays of Charlotte, North Carolina, Emanuel Blair Ragin of Crested Butte, Colorado, Julian Pierce Hays of Columbia, South Carolina, Shayla Lopez of Denver, Colorado, Walker Patrick Dungan of Columbia, South Carolina, and Emilie Kay Dungan of Columbia, South Carolina; and her adored brother, Dr. Troy Belser Gamble Jr. (“T”) of Suttons, South Carolina; and niece and nephews, Paige Kirby Gamble Whalen (Tyler), Joseph Adam Gamble (Maggie) and Samuel Maxey Gamble (Lawson) all of Columbia, South Carolina.
Kay was born in 1947 in Gastonia, North Carolina, Kay was the daughter of the late Millard Frederick Kirby III and Mary Olive Martin Gamble. After the death of her father at an early age, she moved to Andrews, South Carolia where she was raised. Growing up she loved church and summer camp, but the highlight of her childhood was the summers spent at “My Blue Heaven” the family’s beach house in Litchfield Beach, South Carolina where she had a particular affinity for the ocean. She graduated from Andrews High School in 1964, where she was a member of the National Honor Society and enjoyed working on the school yearbook.
Kay went on to attend Columbia College in Columbia, South Carolina, where she earned her degree in 1968 with a major in Business and a minor in English. She cherished her time at Columbia College, particularly the semester spent studying abroad in London and the treasured lifelong friendships she made there.
She spent many years raising her three children in Columbia, South Carolina. During these years she was a member at St. Martin’s-in-the-Fields Episcopal Church, where she loved singing in the choir and directing the children’s choir. She always had a great love and gift for music and the arts.
As her children grew older, Kay began a new career and found much success over the course of 15 years as a stockbroker and financial planner with Merrill Lynch, Edward Jones Financial and finally First Citizens. She worked diligently to master her profession and serve her clients well, eventually opening the very first Edward Jones office in Pawleys Island, South Carolina, an accomplishment of which she was especially proud.
In 2000, Kay married Eugene Carl Fryman in Pawleys Island, South Carolina where they lived for a few years before settling in Florence, South Carolina. Florence ultimately became their home, where they shared 26 years of abundant marriage, devotion, and happiness with one another.
Though accomplished professionally, in 2007 Kay ultimately answered a lifelong call to ministry when she was ordained as a deacon in the Anglican Church and devoted herself to full-time ministry. For the final 18 years of her life, she served faithfully in ministry at St. John’s Church in Florence, South Carolina. Her ministry included facilitating women’s bible studies, chaplaincy at Southland Nursing Home, prison ministry at Wateree Correctional Institution, bringing Holy Eucharist to homebound parishioners and so much more. Kay was an avid reader, always studying the word of God and learning more about how to apply it in how she lived out her faith. She modeled compassion, humility, and steadfast service.
When she was not serving in ministry, Kay was serving in a different way as a devoted mother and grandmother to her girls and her six cherished grandchildren. She was their precious “KK”, generously celebrating birthdays and important milestones in each of their lives, preparing delicious meals to be shared around her table, playing games, nurturing them and most importantly, teaching them about the love of God. Even in her final days, she continued caring for them and cheering them on in each of their life celebrations, especially delighting in gathering much of her family around her dining room table this past Christmas.
Kay will be remembered for her unwavering faith, generous spirit, sharp mind, quick wit, and deep love for her family and the Lord. She lived a life of service to others and leaves behind a legacy of grace, devotion, and love that will continue to inspire all who knew her. She was gracious in her care for all people.
A Service of Christian Burial will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Monday, February 9, 2026, at St. John’s Church with a reception to follow.
The family extends heartfelt gratitude to the incredible staff of McLeod Center for Cancer Treatment and Research, Outpatient Infusion Therapy, McLeod Hospice, and the entire St. John’s Church parish for the extraordinary love and support shown during Kay’s final months. There are truly no words to adequately express our appreciation. We have experienced the hands and feet of Jesus through each one of you. Memorials may be made to McLead Center for Cancer Treatment and Research, c/o McLeod Foundation, P.O. Box 100551, Florence, SC 29502; or St. John’s Church, 252 S. Dargan St., Florence, SC 29506.