
06/30/2025
My heart sank.
I couldn’t believe that she sent me a 7-page resignation letter, filled with screenshots and character assassination.
Written with half-truths. Full lies. With a side of sarcasm.
I was hot!
My anger, disappointment, shock, and hurt spilled from my eyes, so that the words in front of me blurred.
I needed someone else who could see more clearly.
I shared the PDF with my husband and a couple of close friends.
Their response?
Equal shock.
Then one friend responded, saying, “She learned just enough to weaponize your work against you.”
And there it was.
That’s what stung the most.
It’s been a couple of years since this incident, and I think it’s time to share more about my own experience with psychological safety and emotional intelligence as a small business owner.
We often discuss toxic leaders, but what about the toxic hires who adversely impact their leaders and teams?