07/13/2021
Quick check-in for all my parents and caregivers. You carry the weight of your family's world on your shoulders.
And it's so easy to put your needs at the very bottom of the list. So easy, in fact, that you don't notice until you burn out. It's become such a norm, the frazzled parent- counting down the hours or minutes to bedtime/logging off/people shutting up.
Here's the thing - you can't give from an empty cup. (I know, easier said than done but hear me out).
If your family is going through the emotional roller coaster of 2020/21, you are going to feel the need to be the emotional rock for your children.
But I want you to take a moment and check in with yourself first.
How are you coping? It's you feel you aren't.
Is what you are doing sustainable? Now you know if you have to adjust your plan.
I often go back to my 3 C's- Consistency, Clarity, and Compassion for parenting advice. It works for kids and adults too.
I practice self-compassion regularly. I paint my nails when I'm stressed. It takes me 5-10 minutes. Afterward, I have a visual reminder of my act of self-love. too!
What do you need during times of stress and grief? How can you best provide that for yourself? Take care of yourself first and then you will be better prepared to support your kids.
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